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HairyCob
29th May 2007, 09:36 PM
Had a brilliant session tonight with me on Dolly and ChickyD on Jasper... that girl is sneaky I tell you, sneaky!

She text'd to see if I wanted to ride tonight, and of course I did, assuming we were going out for one of our usual mid-week ploddy hacks.

Get to the yard and tack up and 'oh so casually' she say's 'we could just ride in the five acre' with that tone of voice that made me think she didn't really fancy hacking out...:)

So having briefly shook inside from the thought of riding in the field with another horse and then given my self a stern 'talking to' I said, "OK, no problem but NO CANTERING...."

Off we go into the five acre, and I begin my usual 'boring' schooling around my 'imaginary school' in the middle... Chicky just wanders off nice and casual on Jasper, and begins doing some schooling round the edges of the field.

Dolly was working quite well and listening, so I risked doing some trot work- she continued to listen and do as I asked, always aware of where Jasper was but making no attempt to go with him.

Then I got really brave and whilst I thought Chicky wasn't looking, I cantered her up the 'long' side, and she came back to trot when I asked :D :D So I changed the rein and risked it on the other rein too... and although slightly more excitable and needing a bit more 'telling' to come back, Dolly did come back to trot when asked!

I was chuffed to bits and carried on riding Dolly round the 'school' at walk and trot when the next thing I know, Chicky is cantering Jasper across the field :eek: Needless to say my legs went to Jelly and lunch nearly made an unscheduled re-appearance, but I forced myself to relax and concentrate on what I was asking of Dolly at the time and she didn't bat an eyelid... even when Jasper cantered up behind her:D :D

To finish off, Chicky and I 'hacked' round the 5acre together and although Dolly by this time was a little 'on her toes' she wasn't difficult to hold and did walk when asked.

So... it may not sound like much but to me it feels like a MASSIVE step in the right direction:D

HUGE thanks to ChickyD, who really is a sneaky cow, but seems to instinctively 'know' how far I can be pushed, and takes me there sucessfully every time:D

Rarah
29th May 2007, 09:38 PM
Good for you HC!!!

You'll be there before you know it!! :D

Montana
29th May 2007, 09:44 PM
Fantastic news HC:D :D And what a good girl Dolly:D

I have a 'friend' like that;) :p She makes me go into forests, and over ditches and through trees:eek: Seriously, give me an open space any day. But it's the same sense of achievement when we do it I guess:) I'll thank her in the long run, even though she terrifies me!

Faerie Rider
29th May 2007, 09:47 PM
Way to go HC sounds like fun was had by all!

lol
FR

NoviceNic
29th May 2007, 10:05 PM
:eek: The sneaky cow....;) :D

One step for mankind one huge step for HC and Dolly...Well done.:cool:

Ptaty70
29th May 2007, 11:31 PM
That truly is the best news :D ! you just needed to make this step to get you to where you were last year and now you know you are back to that point, you can slowly inch yourself forward (with the help of ChickyD, whether you like it or not it seems.... ;) good girl!!!) and you should be at least doing a few small canters out, even if they are short/slow/solo/whatever. Every little helps! Noone says it will be quick.. confidence takes a while to come back, but your confidence in Miss Dolly has been justified and hopefully this trust will help you to succeed!

Just keep smiiiiiiiiiiiiling! will keep you nice and relaxed and will remind you that THIS IS FUUUUN! :D :D

poohsmate
30th May 2007, 05:59 AM
HUGE thanks to ChickyD, who really is a sneaky cow.

Yes! she has that look about her doesn't she LOL:D :D
Well done C&D i know what a problem it is for you and that's great:D

domane
30th May 2007, 06:05 AM
Brill news! That's EXACTLY the kind of thing you need to be doing to keep adding bricks to your wall of confidence. It's all about knowing you can stop Dolly when you want to, isn't it.

I know how delighted you will be from your achievements and therefore I'm THRILLED for you hun xxxxx

Bobbin
30th May 2007, 07:29 AM
Go you.....can I just say aswell that I am hugely jealous that you can school Dolly in an open field. Not a chance of doing that with Bry I am afraid.

Maybe thats something I need to work on:o

Mary Poppins
30th May 2007, 08:09 AM
I can only dream of cantering in a field - mayone one day I will get there. I too have a friend like yours - she is really great and has gently pushed me beyond my comfort zone many times without me really knowing it. What would we do without friends?

Clare-22
30th May 2007, 08:30 AM
Fantastic HC :D

What a good girl Dolly was to keep listening to her mum in a big field while her friend went off, I know a lot of horses who wouldn't do that :)

Oh and well done sneaky Chicky :p

Imp
30th May 2007, 08:51 AM
Woo hoooo! Well done HC and Dolly :D :D :D

chickflick1066
30th May 2007, 10:02 AM
Fantastic :D

RustyMary
30th May 2007, 10:24 AM
Woweeee! Well done :D

Sandi_Mac
30th May 2007, 10:34 AM
Massive well done to you what a wonderful feeling when all goes well!!

Miriam
30th May 2007, 10:46 AM
Claire that is fantastic. Wow you have come a long way. Great work. Keep it up. I'm beaming for you :D

Chinarider
30th May 2007, 11:30 AM
Brilliant News HC , wish I had your confidence, wish I had a sneaky cow to ride with too ;)

*toHorse&Away*
30th May 2007, 11:46 AM
Smashing, what a good mate and what a good horsey!:D

NicP
30th May 2007, 12:10 PM
Well done you! I def wish I had a sneaky cow to rid with too!!

Lucyad
30th May 2007, 12:23 PM
Well done! Dolly sounds like a star!

kirstie
30th May 2007, 07:34 PM
That's brilliant, well done! :)

HairyCob
30th May 2007, 09:09 PM
Thankyou all for your encouragement- with you lot and ChickyD behind me I'm sure I'll be cantering about the place happily by the end of the summer:D

Est
30th May 2007, 09:29 PM
Fantastic!! :D Well done HC and Dolly :D

cc rider
30th May 2007, 11:01 PM
not such a nervous nellie afte all HC!?

chickyd444
31st May 2007, 12:25 PM
that was me ! i am sneaky and totally off me rocker! i did canter up behind her but i have massive confidence in the pair of them - and new it would all be ok ! well done hairy mary ! dont forget i need help making me duck run - in return :D thanks to poohsmate for the sneaky cow bit i am totally offened frankly, lol

HairyCob
31st May 2007, 08:04 PM
Won't be a problem to make your Duck Run Chicky, I'll just chase it with a big stick..... Oh, sorry, you meant helping you make a run for your Ducks?! I believe I've already made a good start on THAT project... I still can't believe your OH and Dad sat in the kitchen drinking tea whilst we were out in the rain building 'Duckingham Palace'... Men!:rolleyes:

Only problem with building Duck Runs is that I have no further progress to report with Dolly... but then it was raining today and I am a fair weather rider;)

chickyd444
18th Mar 2008, 01:12 PM
I Miss Threads Like This From Hairy :(

monique
18th Mar 2008, 01:59 PM
I know what you mean saw this thread and gaily read it all the way through thinking oooh there's some of the old crowd back online only to read your last post and twig about the date it was started:( I'm not an energetic poster but have lurked for quite a while and do miss reading about some of the old names and their threads no offence meant by the term old :o

Roheryn
18th Mar 2008, 02:29 PM
Congratulations, HairyCob! What a wonderful experience!

I had a ride a lot like this weekend, just "hacking" around in one of the huge schools. Horse had had a nerve-wracking morning with his other rider so I wasn't anywhere near brave enough to ride him out anywhere, but he was as good as gold. We rode with two of our friends (one horse, one human) that we hadn't ridden with in months, and it was wonderful to just walk around together, and at a couple of points I actually trotted with my guy!!!

I'm glad you all had such a great ride, HairyCob!