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samfan121
25th Jun 2007, 12:57 PM
Here's the thing.....
I've done one and two-hour pony treks while on summer holidays as a child and I really enjoyed it. You know the sort of thing a brief instruction on how to start and stopand then everyone walking along nose to tail and occasionally you get to trot, with the guide riding past and telling you it's a 1-2 rhythm and leaving you to get on with it. I do bump occassionally (when I stop thinking at turn to look at the view instead!) but most of the time it's pretty smooth.

I've always really enjoyed it so almost 3 years, ago at the age of 24, I booked a riding weekend in Wales. It was billed as 2 full-day treks for mixed ability and I thought it would be fun and a good opportunity to learn a bit more. I explained to the lady over the phone that I'd never done more than trot but and she said that was fine as long as I wasn't a nervous rider. However....

On the first morning we were told to go and 'catch' the horse from the field and tack it up. Obviously I had no clue but thankfully got some help from a nice young stable hand ;) and was soon ready to go. Then I found out that all 7 others in the gorup had their own horses and had been riding for years - help!
So we set off out the gate at a pretty quick trot and after a few minutes one of my feet slipped from the stirrup. I stopped the horse to sort myself out and by the time I looked up the whole group had disappeared from sight! Used to slow fat ponies I kicked the horse on quite hard.....and she took off! It felt like flying! I took a 2 point position (I think that's what it's called) automatically and finally managed to reign her in when we caught up to the group. Needless to say I was pretty pleased with myself and laughing like a mad thing!
Since no one had realised what I'd done or even that I had been missing (which worried me slightly!), a little later on the guide pointed out a gate up ahead and told me he wanted to see if I could canter to it and was I up for trying? I said yes, he slapped my horse on the behind and I was off again! His response? 'Well you didn't fall off so you should be fine'!
After that we spent the 2 days barely doing any walking at all. It was all fast trots and long canters. I feel like there was a gallop in there but surely they wouldn't have let me do that????
Anyway,by the time I left I could barely move but I was hooked!

Unfortunately I was living in London so only managed the odd trek when I visited my parents. These usually included an opportunity for a short canter away from the slower members of the group. Again, I automatically took the 2 point - up out of the saddle, trying to keep my heels down and a lowish centre of gravity and gripping a handful of mane.

I haven't been able to make a ride since for just over a year and finally last weekend booked in for a half day ride near my parents. The group was very mixed ability but three of us were offered the opportunity to canter away from the rest and it was excellent. Open countryside, well behaved horse and some pretty good speed. I got covered in mud and didn't fall off :p

The thing is, I feel confident and tend to do what comes naturally. However because I've never had a formal lesson I have no idea if I'm doing something totally wrong. I kind of assumed that the guides would say something if I was??? Also, when I went on the wales weekend I did feel like I was controling the horse to a certain extent - turning, stopping, speeding up, slowing down etc- as we rode in a spread out group and not nose to tail so it wasn't a case of the horse just following the one in front. B ut this last weekend the horse paid me very little attention at all and simply did whatever the one in front did. i.e. on the canter it took off when the lead horse did and stopped when the lead horse did etc.

I would really love to have lessons but it's a question of getting out to the stables at the moment as they are pretty far and I don't have my own transport.

Is what I'm doing normal? I've seen lots of posts here about how many lessons people have had before they trot or canter etc and how difficult things are and I've never learned any strict technique, rather just picked things up from watching the guides etc.

Any opinions would be wlecome.

jinglejoys
25th Jun 2007, 01:58 PM
I don't think the guides would say anything as long as they had your mone;) Its a bit like presenting your horse to the farrier its not his job to train it!
You sound as if you're managing but whaty happens if things really go wrong it really helps to know what to do:D
You may have natural balance and common sence so don't get that knocked out of you (I'm a "what if?" sort of person myself) I suggest you go down the Western route if you want to learn,a lot of the riders are adult,the seats are deeper and the horses steadier:)

Trewsers
25th Jun 2007, 02:23 PM
I am slightly worried that you got left behind on an organised hack!!! Also, cantering with so little experience makes me wonder about the type of place you were riding at!! Sounds like you did well tho - but if I were you I'd try and get some proper lessons - you don't want to leave things to luck!! Not trying to sound like a real killjoy or anything - just a thought.......

Gruntfuttock
25th Jun 2007, 03:02 PM
Hi samfan and welcome. There is definitely something to be said for just getting out there and having fun on a horse, rather than spending months and years going round and round and round and round in a school...but with my gloomy hat on I would say, don't kid yourself, what you're doing is tons of fun, but its not really riding. You don't really have any control over the horse, because the sort of horses that do fun treks are focused on keeping up with their pals, not really about what the person on their back is actually doing. So far, its been fortunate that what you want to do and what the horse wants to do are roughly the same thing...

Maybe it would be a good idea to have a few lessons just to sharpen up your technique a bit, if you possibly can, and keep on doing the fun treks to enjoy yourself.

PS. :eek: at the place that just lets people off into the wilds to canter around without any sort of attempt to find out if they know what they are doing or not. Sounds like a great big lawsuit just waiting to happen.

samfan121
25th Jun 2007, 04:17 PM
Thanks for your replies.

Don't worry, I'm not kidding myself that I really totally know what I'm doing and there's no way I would ever attempt to go out without an organised party!

I just really wanted to know if anyone else has had this sort of experience and if it's normal ;)

Joyscarer
25th Jun 2007, 05:30 PM
I learnt to ride as a child at an urban yard where a bloke with a few horses let local kids ride for an hour for £2 (back in 1980ish) taught by other kids a bit further along than you were. You had to put in some work whilst you were there though which meant I learnt loads :D

It meant I had loads of fun, could stay on anything and was confident hacking out as riding out was the only option.

When I returned to riding years later I didn't half get a shock :eek:

It was my first time in a school situation and going BHS approved.

TBH I hated it. It sapped my confidence, I felt trapped by the school, I didn't (and still don't) know where the letters were, I could hear the instructor properly, it was very intense and not fun like hacking was.

I still hate my riding lessons because of all these factors but recognise them as a necesary evil to learn about how to get the best from myself and my horse.

I am a happy hacker as preference but leaning to do things properly has really helped me to get more from Joy and she goes better as a result. :)

Kittycat
25th Jun 2007, 05:44 PM
Hi Samfan

Years ago I used to go on hacks on holiday, and potter about on a friend's pony, and while I knew I couldn't ride properly I thought I had the basics (and I had such fun!) Then last year (many moons later) I started having lessons, and realised how difficult it actually is to ride, rather than just be a passenger! If you can, I'd suggest having a few lessons, and as Gruntfuttock says, keep going on the hacks for fun.

Whatever you do, make sure you enjoy it!

LMayhewtx
25th Jun 2007, 06:16 PM
Hi Samfan,
There are lots of different disciplines within riding, so echoing what everyone said, some lessons would be a good way to learn how to control your horse and also learn a little about western, hunter, dressage, etc...

I don't know about where you are, but here some barns offer "trail riding lessons" where I presume you go out on a hack, but learn about controlling your horse instead of following all the others. Maybe you can find something like that?

pedilia
25th Jun 2007, 07:35 PM
what a fun way to start:D

parsharainbow
27th Jun 2007, 08:29 AM
I taught myself to ride and spent a happy ten years out hacking which I really enjoyed, however, when I finally decided to have lessons last year I had the shock of my life at how little I knew :eek:

Yes I was safe on a hack I could control my horse but what shocked me was all the schooling malarky and what you could achieve - I got hooked :)

After 10 years being a happy hacker and never wanting to do anything else I became a flatwork addict - its what suits :)

I would advise a few lessons for safety's sake (although stupidly I never did) but carry on with the trekking - its great fun isn't it? I go every year in the Brecon Beacons.

Where did you go? Being Welsh myself I'm interested :)

samfan121
27th Jun 2007, 01:42 PM
Hi Parsharainbow

Last weekend I was at Cantref - first time there but I really enjoyed it. Been to Llanthony a few times but they were booked up.

I noticed you're from Cardiff. Do you know anything about riding out at Ogmore? I might be going there with a friend.

Thanks