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Roheryn
29th Oct 2007, 12:16 AM
You all who post on this forum really do inspire and encourage me. Just coming here, reading posts, helps me a lot.
I went to the barn today to ride. I've been sort of "ouchy" for the past few days, sort of sore, tired, achy. I got on the horse today and just didn't feel coordinated, or in balance. Back was hurting a bit, knees weren't really there, everytime we halted I felt sort of off balance.
But we persevered. I thought of other riders I've "met" here at New Rider who, like me, deal with ouchy joints, pain, balance issues, nerves, other difficulties just to get up on the horse and go. Who want special saddles for comfort and security. Who want really quiet, and fairly short, horses. I said to myself, "You are not the only horsewoman in the world who doesn't just leap into the saddle and gallop away" (and what horsewoman/horseman would do that even if they could?). I talked with a friend, who'd already ridden her horse today, and she said that these days they're doing the old-stiff kind of riding.
I felt today I was triumphing just to be in the saddle, moving around the school. I don't have to go out and do cross-country, or barrel racing, to be a rider. I don't have to compete with the younger, or more physically fit, riders who can post a trot for several circuits of the school and who aren't reluctant to canter because their joints don't hurt or collapse on them.
My guy and I had a great ride today--he was quiet, and soft, and afterwards I took him out to a new part of the farm to graze.
It's been a lovely day. :)

Roka
29th Oct 2007, 07:35 AM
Roheryn you are definitely not the only one!! I am slightly disabled too, I'm born with cerebral paresis in left leg and have other issues with knee problems etc in the same leg, so I walk with a severe limp. Today if I go riding I need to take it easy as I get pains pretty quickly and I can no longer rise to the trot very well or put much weight on my knees, so I am glad for my little soft-moving Icelandic pony. But she spooks a lot and that has made me wary of riding her on the roads (she's not safe in traffic anymore after an accident we had) and I don't ride much now a days. It takes courage for me to get in the saddle, I am getting old and don't bounce if I fall off. :D I am aware that I cause some of Roka's spooking by being afraid but I am working on that,or trying to. In the meantime she has been used to give rides to quadroplegics (sp?) at my parents' B&B - she is perfectly fine for that as long as I lead her or am nearby, cos I can do everything safely with her from the ground as I have put lots of training in her there.

I am in awe of all who has a disability and still summons the courage to ride, no matter what form it takes! Small steps and getting up there is what counts. :)