hip direction dilema!!! HELP

[riding_star05]

My friend told me that when turning I should point my hipbones the way I am turning. (like when I turn right my left hipbone will come moreforward. But then on the kinder way of riding aids (( http://www.newrider.com/Kinder_Way/The_Aids/weight_aids.html )) it say to do the oppisite (when turning right right hipbone will come more forwards)) to shift my weight. Which one is right??? PLEASE HELP!

[Mehitabel]

the kinder way one is right, and expolains itbeter than i could. in a nutshell though, your shoulders and hips ought to mirror the horse's, so the outside shoulder comes forward and the inside hip/seatbone. it's not enough of a movement to make you twist - if you feel like you're twisting you're doing it too much. for the seatbone coming forward, think of clenching one bumcheek and that's the extent of it.