nicolaj
10th Jul 2005, 02:46 PM
Just wondered in anybody had tried this, http://www.fizzcoachingclinic.com/kit/index.php and if so what were their thoughts?
I'm an older rider (well 34!) and at times have moments of extreme self doubt, and just completely bottle out. For example the other week at a show, the first I have been to with my horse this year, he began to have a dippy fit bucking and being silly when the other horse we came with went off. When he stopped, I just got off and didn't get back on. What a waste. Then felt really bad and still do, let myself down,the people I was with and most of all my horse! This is now manifesting itself.
I've got a show next week, which I was undecided about, but now half my family are going! So have to enter one class, just the ridden coloured and leave it at that.
NEver had a pony/horse when younger and so it's all very new to me, that cool calm confidence people think I have most of the time just a front! Now starting to make excuses not to ride, such as it's too hot, got a headache, bit late etc.
Just need to get back on track somehow!!!
I'm an older rider (well 34!) and at times have moments of extreme self doubt, and just completely bottle out. For example the other week at a show, the first I have been to with my horse this year, he began to have a dippy fit bucking and being silly when the other horse we came with went off. When he stopped, I just got off and didn't get back on. What a waste. Then felt really bad and still do, let myself down,the people I was with and most of all my horse! This is now manifesting itself.
I've got a show next week, which I was undecided about, but now half my family are going! So have to enter one class, just the ridden coloured and leave it at that.
NEver had a pony/horse when younger and so it's all very new to me, that cool calm confidence people think I have most of the time just a front! Now starting to make excuses not to ride, such as it's too hot, got a headache, bit late etc.
Just need to get back on track somehow!!!