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CT
21st Aug 2001, 09:16 AM
Hi everyone

Yes it's me and Mr. D again with more exploits. Sorry it's a bit long again. I'll try to post more regularly so they are shorter and easier to read.

If anyone wants to share their own 'new owner' dilemas/disasters - even if you find it hard remembering that far back! - then tag them onto this post. It would be good to hear about other potential pitfalls so that I can try and avoid them. I think Dougal would really appreciate it too!

Caron

The Dougal Diary

Days 2-8

Dougal

Colour : Bay (ish - I think I'm developing a sort of orange glow)
Weight: Heavy
Carrots consumed: Loads


Help meeeeeeeee I'm being assaulted. If you're reading this please call SPOD (the Society for the Protection of Dougals) NOW!

Everything seemed to be fine on Day 1, give or take a little electrocution but since then she's done nothing but beat me up. First she spent most of days 2-4 trying out various head collars and bridles. She'd put them on, she'd twiddle about with them, and she'd take them off. That would be alright if it wasn't for the fact that every time she did it, she managed to poke me in the eye/nose/chest or head. Then there was the day when she brought the complete bridle to try on me. She had the whole kit this time, double reins the lot. She put the reins over my ears, catching my ears of course as she did that, she then began to put the rest of the bridle near my face and the whole thing fell apart. Luckily, the bits that dropped off managed to miss my tender tootsies

On Day 8 she managed to seriously assault me and I'm thinking about bringing charges. She'd tied me up outside my comfy stable and I kept watching her mucking out stuff inside. The whole thing made me really want to pee and the more I watched the more desperate I got. The floor outside the stable was clean and I didn't want to mess it up. I put my head round the stable door a lot and tried to make it clear that I wanted to come back in. She thought I was just being 'cute'. Eventually she twigged that something was up and thought I wanted a drink. I got quite excited when she came towards me and I tried to get inside the stable quickly but forgot that I was tied up. She tried to get the lead rope off me but forgot that she had a broom under her arm, which jabbed me in the face. I then moved backwards and hit my leg on a wheelbarrow that pushed me forwards again, jab, backwards, prang. Luckily she put the broom down and got me inside. I had the quickest pee ever.

I have noticed that each time these things happen she sniffs a lot, talks about guilt, my friends in Devon and gives me lots of carrots. I suppose the occasional ABH ain't all that bad really.



Caron

Hair colour: greying (fast)
Weight: losing (fast - yippee)
Calories consumed: Not many. No time to eat.

Dougal has grown. In Devon he was definitely 16.1hh, but I swear he is about 18hh+ now he has come to London. I took him out for a short walk and munch around the livery yard this morning and was virtually hanging off the head collar (I'm 5ft 4). I only managed to come back to earth when he put his head down to munch and then was off the floor again when he moved on. I'm told that this head up to the sky stuff won't last. I hope not, I'm getting airsickness.

Buying and fitting a bridle, what a fiasco. Got a good quality bridle off the peg at the local tack shop and a friend gave me a set of reins. As Dougal is usually ridden in the mullen mouth pelham at Heather's I bought one of those too. I fitted it to the bridle but couldn't understand why the curb chain was hanging so loose and low. I checked if I'd put it on the right way round and it all looked right, the bit was curved at the front so nothing wrong there. I tried it on Dougal who seemed OK but there was definitely something not right about it. Went to bed and woke up at about 4am when it came to me that the bit was upside down. Doh!

Day 5- Dougal is a food terrorist! I've been sucking up to him with carrots, fruit polos, and the occasional apple and he has now begun to demand them all as soon as I go near him. Failure on my part results in him doing his 'Kevin' impression eg. ears back in a 'I hate you' fashion. Began to wonder if he's going to be too much for me, if he is like this because he is stressed and missing his old friends in Devon, and if I should really have taken him away from all that. Guilt, guilt, guilt and tears in the stable. Bad day.

Day 7 - Been to the stables every day at 5am to muck Dougal out, and take him out for a walk. He is turned out for up to 7 hours in the afternoon through to the evening, but since he is used to being out for much longer than this, guilt has meant that I turn up at the crack of dawn and take him out of the stables for as long as possible. At the other end of the day I go back and take him for another walk around/munch so that he spends as little time as possible in the stable. Tiring day.

Day 8 - Dougal's back down to 16.1hh, my feet are now firmly on the floor, and cutting out treats means no more 'Kevin' impressions. The livery yard owners are helping me out with Dougal in the evening and I'm on AM duty and not so tired today. Now I only have to contend with the other livery owners constantly asking (accusing?) me "have you ridden him yet?". Why am I the only person who seems to think that Dougal needs to settle in a bit before I ride him/hack him out in the local forest? Beginning to think there must be something wrong with me but also worried that there's something wrong with all of them too. Not sure what is worst scenario. Fairly good day though.

Caron

claireh
21st Aug 2001, 09:45 AM
Caron,

Oh! The memories that this bring back!! If I had time I would re-count some of Pageant and I's simmilar adventures when I got him ( A year ago tomorrow!) but I was supposed to be at work at nine...taking the mickey a bit to be 'New Ridering' at home at ten thirty!!

With regard to letting him settle in- do what you are comfortable with- in the long run it will benefit you both because you will have established a relationship on the ground! I didn't ride Pageant at all for the first fortnight, then had a couple of bad falls that were due to him having bad teeth, and then couldn't ride again for a fortnight after the dentist had sorted him out- since then however we haven't looked back! I think the time I spent with him not riding in that first month is probably responsible for the excellent relationship I have with him now!

Of course, you are unlikley to have such problems with Dougal on accout of where he came from! Pageant came from a dealer at a sheep fair- he was in such a state, I couldn't leave him there, and it has turned out very well for both of us, but I wouldnt reccomend it as an ideal option for bying a 'first horse'!!!

Keep up the good work and keep us posted!!

Sarah
21st Aug 2001, 09:56 AM
hello!

It sounds like you are doing really well with Dougal. i must admit his tale of needing a pee was rather amusing, poor old Dougal!

I think you should just do what you want with regard to when you start to ride him. You know Dougal very well, a lot better than anyone else buying a new horse and you have a lot of horse sense so you just wait till you want to ride him.

I am sure he isn't missing his old buddies at Heather's too much as he has new friends to play with at your yard. He will however try to work out where the boundaries of acceptable behavior are in the first few weeks so he may well have a few 'Kevin' moments. You are very capable though and i am sure you will quickly establish where the limits are with him.

One thing you forgot on your first post was a photo for us all to see! I have seen how totally drop dead gorgeous Dougal is, but it isn't fair for everyone else who just has to take our word for it! Caron really is lucky, at last year's NR seminar at Heather's when Dougal came out everyone's jaw hit the floor as he is a real stunner. I'll let Caron tell you all why we then started to laugh at him though (does he still dangle?)!

bye!

floppy
21st Aug 2001, 10:39 AM
hehe what a story..
i would love to see a piccy of dougal too :)

Maria
21st Aug 2001, 12:49 PM
Hi Caron

You know Dougal, you'll know when it's right to ride him.

I've owned Carrie for 4 years and kept her at 4 different yards - don't ask and she has been at the current yard for 2 whole years.
Apart from yard number 2 (not enough equine friends) she has always settled in quite quickly.

At yard number 2 she would refuse to go into the stable at first - scared that we were going to leave her on her own. I thought I was being kindest by leaving her stabled on the first night but she was on the block on her own and fretted because she could see a horse in the field below. She displayed the most fantastic medium trot when I turned her out next to the other horse next day. You live and learn - I'd risk turning her out in similar circumstances.

At the current yard she arrived as a grass livery on worming weekend. She was turned out in the strip between fields with two other mares who proceeded to chase her up and down. My heart was in my mouth as I'd moved her because she'd been beaten up and kicked badly on her hind leg just a few weeks before. They soon settled down and she joined the girl gang!

She's now got a stable and is happy with the herd of mares that she is turned out with daily. She'd jealous that she isn't out 24/7 like some of the girls but she just gets too fat.

Horses are very forgiving - even experienced horse owners make mistakes. Try and enjoy Dougal and not worry about being a first time horse owner. I've always been lucky in that instructors, friends and other livery owners, plus the yard owner, are happy to offer help and advice.

I love your diary. I meant to keep a regular diary about Carrie's progress - but somehow it didn't happen.

Maria

Hayleyb277
21st Aug 2001, 01:41 PM
Caron

Photo is a must, dying to see him. I'm thoroughly enjoying reading all about you both.

katyptaty
21st Aug 2001, 01:44 PM
Hi Caron

Love the diary. would hate to think what my poor horse thinks of me - making him do all these hills, being on a diet and in the starvation paddock.... in fact, i would rather not know what he thinks!

i spent ages on the ground with him before going out alone. I used to put him on a lunge rein and walk past obstacles from the ground. He came to trust me very quickly and now will walk past scarey objects (horse eating logs, killer snails etc) with a quiet word from me.

He'll love the attention.

He sounds lovely! yes, please put a photo in the next diary. It's always nice to see who is 'writing'!!

Enjoy your first few months with him. it will all be a learning process and you will soon settle down to 'comfortable-dom'... the worrying never goes though, i.e. am i doing the right thing by him, is he happy, going out of your way to make sure that his life is as comfortable as possible. In the second stable i had mine in, they put him in quarantine (!!!) and he couldn't go out. i spent many an hour worrying about him and taking time off work to take him out for walks etc. needless to say, i moved yards 3 days later cos the stress was too much for both of us! wasn't a good yard anyway!

look forward to the next installment!

kate

CT
21st Aug 2001, 03:12 PM
Hi everyone

Glad you're enjoying our adventures so far.

Unfortunately, despite the fact that I have a couple of really nice photos of Dougal my computer/computing skills don't expend to putting photos on the web. I have a friend who might be able to do it for me so bear with me. I do, however, have a lovely pic of Sue (the moderator) being lunged on Dougal by Heather at last year's seminar on my computer. Sue if you read this can you paste that photo into these messages. It really is lovely.

Sarah, I loved your recollection of Dougal's particular problem at last year's seminar. You'll be happy to know that he still dangles, although he isn't doing it as often as he used to. I've been trying to work out if there's any logical reason for it and there doesn't appear to be. God only knows what he's thinking about at the time!

Maria, Claire, Katy nice to hear some other tales and thanks for the advice which I really appreciate, particularly the info on working from the ground which I've been doing. In fact I resisted all indications that I should get on and ride him willy nilly and decided to ride him when I thought he was ready. More news of that in the next diary entry!

Do keep the info/stories coming. A problem shared etc...

Caron

Hayleyb277
21st Aug 2001, 03:23 PM
Just a thought Caron/Sue, maybe it's been posted elsewhere or maybe I'm just being thick perhaps and missed it in either of the posts but what's Dougal's breeding and his age??????

CT
21st Aug 2001, 03:36 PM
Hayley

Dougal is part cleveland bay/tb (on his father's side) and welsh cob on his mother's. He is 9 years old.

Caron

judyl
21st Aug 2001, 03:37 PM
Hi Caron

How exciting for you! What a dark horse you are and Heather too, I didn't even know Dougal was for sale (to the right home only of course.)

Keep up your diary - your bit about Dougal trying to get in the stable to pee with you in the way with a broom really made me chuckle. I can imagine the pair of you in the doorway - after you, no I insist, after you.

I've just been away for a few days and Shade is now sulking. She always does when I've been away and come back. She doesn't talk to me and just turns her head away. It seems she has to let me know that she hasn't been very happy while I've been away and that I really shouldn't leave her. At the moment though I'm looking after Shade and Blooi (Tim's horse) and I don't think I'm cut out for looking after two of the monsters! Roll on when we can bring them home which should be around the middle of September.

I think you're right not riding and working from the ground. Maybe do some long reining with him so he can get used to your voice commands and then when you do get on his back, he'll gain comfort and confidence from your voice.

You're a very lucky person and I'm really envious!

Judy
:D

CT
21st Aug 2001, 04:06 PM
Hi Judy (and Tim, of course)

I wouldn't have known that Douggie was for sale either if Jo and Sharon McLoughlin (do U remember them?) hadn't seen a post from Heather on the EE list by chance. It was one of those EE posts that I hadn't gotten around to reading. Fortunately Heather didn't keel over laughing when I emailed her that I might be a suitable candidate for this particular purchase. Not sure what she'll think when she reads these posts tho'!!!

Your account of Shady sulking made me laugh. She still sounds like a real character. Having had one horse to look after for the last two weeks, I can really appreciate the level of skill/stamina needed to look after two.

You are right about how lucky I am. I know that having Dougal is the opportunity of a lifetime and I'm treating it that way too.

Bye for now

Caron

Sue
3rd Sep 2001, 04:23 PM
Hi Everyone - I've added the photo as an attachment - hope you like it.

floppy
3rd Sep 2001, 04:42 PM
now im really jealous :) he is soo..pretty..ehm pretty isnt the word for a male is it..how about handsome! elegant...stunning!?:D
you are so lucky to have found such a wonderful horse and i hope everything is going on just great with you too :)

Katie_85
3rd Sep 2001, 07:31 PM
WOW!! What Floppy said!:)

katyptaty
5th Sep 2001, 03:49 PM
Caron

WHAT HAS HAPPENED TO YOUR DIARIES? you can't give us a taster of his first 10 days then leave us hanging on the edge about what is going on!!!

i rather like Dougal's point of view on matters! I constantly voice Cobweb's thoughts and most of them are saying 'stupid woman, what ARE you doing!???'

So when you have time, now that we have met the little fella via the picture, keep us up to date with your and his progress!!!

He's a beautiful looking boy by the way.

CT
6th Sep 2001, 09:44 AM
Hi Everyone

Sorry that I haven't posted any diaries recently, I've been snowed under with work and looking after Dougal's every wish is a full time job in itself!

A big THANK YOU to Sue for putting up the lovely picture of her riding Dougal. In fact, for those that haven't been to Heather's beautiful place in Devon, the picture shows Sue being lunged by Heather in Heather's outdoor school. It's quite a good picture of my lad too - proud mother moment!

Thanks for all the nice things you've said about the big lad. Katypaty a 'little fella' he ain't! He's a 16.1hh tub of lard at the moment whose doing his very best to resist all attempts to put him on a diet.

The diaries will be back by the weekend!

Byeeeeee

Caron

katyptaty
6th Sep 2001, 10:03 AM
Hi Caron

look forward to the diaries! seems that there will be a lot of references to food!!

all of our fellas our 'little fellas' irrespective of height and girth! Mine is the last in the world to be called little fella - or even 'little pony' sometimes - cos he became such a fat chubber but bless his little heart, will always be my little boy!

If he's anything like mine, it will be a fight to get off the weight. he looks at me as if i am starving him! even fleeces look tasty to him at the moment. the weight is coming off though, much to his horror and my delight!