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Whatanejit
29th Aug 2006, 08:56 PM
August 2006

I just thought I would update you on my share horse May and as I have learned so much about her fill you in on her recent past.

Well I have been sharing May officially since the month of May – 4 months now. How time has flown.

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It started off tentatively as she was recovering from a period of being unshod with a Strasser Trim and was extremely sore footed, she was grossly overweight and had about 3 aunties (including me) and one Mum all of whom were having a say in how May was to be looked after, exercised etc.

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I won’t go into the ‘gossipy’ details here but just lets say that I was tempted to run a mile on several occasions because of the human involvement and not the poor horse.

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We are not sure of May’s early life experience but know that at the age of 8 she was bought by the RDA for £2,500. She was a well schooled, forward going cob who loved to jump.

She didn’t take to RDA life well and soon became extremely badly behaved and hard to handle. She frequently reared when handled on the ground and quickly became a very NON RDA pony!

In the meantime one of the volunteers fell in love with her chestnut maerish cheekiness and after a lot of thought she decided to buy May – her current Mum J.

She only paid £750.00, didn’t get her vetted and took on a hip injury that occurred in the trailer as May was transferred from old owner to the RDA.

Now J has had horses on and off since she was 6 so knew what she was taking on but adult life and time were soon to be a problem.

May settled well in her new field with 24hr turnout and plenty of company.

She had easy access onto Epsom Downs and frequently went out hacking in large groups of other horses sharing the field. This didn’t happen quite enough, though and May’s waistline soon began to grow.

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J enlisted the help of Auntie no. 1 (E) to help care for May as work commitments meant that J was unable to always fulfill her duties. E, an RDA volunteer herself, soon decided that she would like to buy a horse too and soon became the proud owner of a rescued mare who bites, kicks, naps and spooks at everything – big mistake.

3 years down the line, to give E her due, she has stuck with her mare – some would say foolishly – and she is much improved but still very unpleasant. To help with her development J frequently hacked out with E and, as the others refused to hack out with E and her horse due to the bad habits she was passing onto the younger horses, it soon resulted in E’s horse and May being hacking partners.

E’s horse is a dominant mare in the field but then looses all confidence when out hacking. This soon resulted in May losing her confidence, refusing to lead EVER and napping etc.

E and J moved their horses to our current yard last October where the relationship continued.
May continued to grow, E did the DIY jobs during the week, J only rode at the weekend and once again, May grew even more.

Although E helped with the care of May, May would not let her ride her and indeed J had tried 2 other sharers in the past that May just didn’t like and wouldn’t move for – the little madam.

When we arrived at the yard with Cooper E soon adopted us and offered to take us out with her horse in front, Coops in the middle and May behind. It was so kind of her and she was so proud of the fact that her horse was now willing to lead a ride out and was given the opportunity to baby sit us.

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Two things from this…………
1. We got on with J like a house on fire and she soon asked me if I would like to try May so that OH and I could ride out together – we had thought of looking for a share after about 6 months. For one to have arisen so soon was a dream come true and yet daunting at the same time.

2. E’s horse was not a good lead horse for Cooper. She napped and refused to go forward for a lot of the ride. It was on our second ride that we learned how comfortable Cooper was to go in front as OH was concerned as to what Cooper was witnessing that he gave him a gentle nudge and he took the lead. E’s horse was delighted and followed along like a lamb behind. 6 weeks later we stopped hacking out with E’s horse as Cooper had begun to mimic some of her napping.

In the meantime I tried May and she responded to me as a rider and on the ground.
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She was so different from Cooper in both of these spheres.

1. Ridden. Oh my goodness she is such an armchair of a ride – a lovely comfy cob with a rocking horse canter. Compare this to our bone shaking youngster at the time. She gave me a lot of confidence in my riding and our hacking out on our own ability.
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2. On the ground. Oh my goodness! A chestnut mare! What a cheeky, bolshy madam she can be. Compare that to our dog horse of a gelding. Taking her on had added a huge dimension to my experience as a horse owner / handler.

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Back to her feet again.

From October last year her mum went back to a normal barefoot trim but May was still very sore. I felt cruel riding her over some of our hacking terrain and she and I were frequently covered in scratches where we hugged the grass verges tightly to stay off a stony path.

Her front feet were shod in June and after a period of letting her ‘forget’ the pain she is such a happier girl when walking out. She even wanted to canter over some hard ground only the other week – I had trouble keeping her in trot – before she would only have walked on the verges of this part of the park.

Her weight.

After succeeding in getting her on the horsewalker way back in May, and a feeding, turnout and exercise routine agreed upon between Mum and Aunties May lost weight.

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She felt brighter, more forward going and her girth shifted from three holes on each side to four holes on each side.

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TThis only lasted about 1 month, though and a few of the parties involved miscommunicated, let things slip etc. The fat comments from YOs started again and the girth was back to 3 and 3.


This was very disheartening for me and once again, due to the human interactions, I felt like running away to Cooper’s corner never to be seen in May’s barn again.

Whatanejit
29th Aug 2006, 08:58 PM
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Aparently May is a good jumper and she loves it. I was hoping that after she had lost weight that I could have a few jumping lessons on her. Now that she had put on weight again this clearly isn’t going to happen in the short term.

After a few frank discussions with Aunties and Mum we seem to be on track again with a grazing muzzle in tow.

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We have gone to 4 and 3 on the girth, she is brighter and skipping along when out hacking and seems more affectionate.

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Confidence.

Cooper and May hack out together a lot and it has done wonders for her confidence. She is the bossy mare in the relationship and he is happy to oblige. Slowly but surely over the weeks she would take over and lead part of the hack when out with Cooper. She still needs a lot of pushing to take over E’s horse – the dominant mare.

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As we went from progressing Cooper from riding in a group to leading May out in a ride and then to only him and one of us in a bike we had several Sundays where the two horses didn’t ride out together. We took the opportunity to try and get May to follow OH on foot. Typical mare – she loves OH and would follow him anywhere!

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We did this twice and then progressed to OH being on a bike in the lead. She was great – a little twitchy when near the road but she was quite happy being the only horse as long as she OH to follow.

Last Sunday we had planned to do the same again but after I mounted she walked on and OH was still behind us – I asked him to stay there and it resulted in May being in front for the whole of a 1.5 hr hack! She was fantastic. I cantered her too and practiced changing the speed in each pace as she can run off with you in canter very easily.
She really seemed to enjoy herself.

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May has been great for us as it means we hack out just the four of us. Her favourite gait is canter and when she canters she loves to be in front. This has been brilliant in teaching Cooper to canter when out. He is happy to follow her and isn’t competitive with her at all.

Ground Work.

Still a bit of a madam. I think with May I have used so much of the ‘moving feet’ exercise to the extreme. We do it with Cooper when we enter his box by making him back up.

With Cooper we can enter his box, give him a carrot, groom, muck out, refill water buckets and there will be no need to put a head collar on as he will go wherever you put him without much objection. Occasionally he gets excited at shenanigans and will make for the stable door.

With May, after a lot of trial and error, I now put her headcollar on just after I say hello and give her a head rub. I then do back up, laterally move her in both directions and then tie her up.

This has stopped her spinning and showing me her booty, barging, pushing me into the wall and head butting me in the chest – she still does this to her Mum but I won’t stand for it and so it doesn’t happen any more.

So overall, the share is going well. May is such a sweet girl and I have fallen for her. It took me a lot longer to get the emotional bond firstly because she is not mine and secondly because of the extra people involved in the relationship.

May has benefited from Coops, OH and I and indeed we have benefited from her.

Lovely girlie.

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Xx

Dee

CurlyWurlyRach
29th Aug 2006, 09:12 PM
What a nice read Dee :)

Est
29th Aug 2006, 09:43 PM
You've made great progress with her W'jit :) Shame about all those other Aunties in some ways... too many cooks and all that! But it sounds like she's responding very well to you and OH and I'm sure the girth will be back to 4 and 4 in the near future :)

NoviceNic
29th Aug 2006, 10:11 PM
You are doing really well with May. Lovely update. I hope you shift the weight soon so you can have a go at jumping. :)

coverblown
29th Aug 2006, 10:15 PM
Lovely news - she look like a different horse, and such great experience for you both.

Well done, you are a natural at this lark...

A. xxx

Little Dolphins
29th Aug 2006, 11:03 PM
Ah, it's great you've got a girlywurly to love as well as your big boy!
Mares can be- well, MARES, can't they?:D They do make me smile, too.

You've done so well with her and for her, W'jit. I'm sure she's a fitter, happier horse these days.

The greatest thing is that you've been able to keep going with your riding; it's wonderful that you say your confidence has grown. Wahooo!
(Let that be meeee, one day....:rolleyes: )

Really enjoyed reading the progress report and I'm very proud of you. What an indomitable spirit you have, Dee;)

Cheers! (clinks glass in big toast to you, May, OH and Cooper).

jenren!!
29th Aug 2006, 11:20 PM
What an intersting read. She sure sounds a nice girl. Well done for giving her such a nice life :)

VickiGG
30th Aug 2006, 05:20 AM
Thats wonderful progress - for all of you - well done

teabiscuit
30th Aug 2006, 11:34 AM
well done for sticking with May, the hardest part would be dealing with the other Aunties I'm sure. I think this part of it would be beyond me.
you sound so good for May, long may it continue :)

Whatanejit
30th Aug 2006, 06:24 PM
Thanks for taking the time to read and reply peeps.

Yes you are all correct on the auntie business - need to bite my tongue here.

Ouch!

It is slowly but surely getting sorted and a system being developed.

Thanks for all your advice over the last lot of months or I wouldn't have lasted a week!

xx

Dee

Imp
31st Aug 2006, 08:52 AM
Well done to you! I've got a fatty that needs slimming down too. Fancy coming round to be an Auntie to Meggles? :D

Seriously, May looks so much better than the barrel shape she once was. It sounds as if it were a case of "too many aunties spoiled the horse" if you'll pardon my misuse of proverb :rolleyes: Lucky for May that you stepped in in the nick of time :eek:

Well done, you really are an inspirational horse owner.

Clare-22
31st Aug 2006, 03:16 PM
Where do you find the time, not only to be a wonderful mum to the big boy but also to help out the lovely May :) Your are an inspiration!