lisae
28th Feb 2002, 06:20 PM
We've just gotten our new cart for the Haflinger mare we got late last year. The weather's been clear and even though I vowed to take lessons first, last Sunday was so beautiful we hitched her up and took our first drive. We only went a mile to our farm, rested (she rested, we showed her off to my in-laws!) and came back. Monday (that's her registered name, go figure) was super, and went right along calmly despite our beginner antics!
Question: I wanted to start right in holding the whip and trying to hold the reins properly, hubby (backseat driver) insisted I quit waving that thing around and took it away. Mare didn't care although I got some ear whirling when I tried to touch her as backup to my rein work. Is it OK to leave off the whip work until I have a better handle on driving, or lessons? I thought it was an integral part of the deal. Also, I didn't want to be on her mouth too hard and fell back on voice commands a lot, is this acceptable? It's a different feeling when you are used to riding and suddenly you're several feet back - I found myself peering around to try and see her head and obviously this isn't good form nor particularly useful. We also did some beautiful serpentines on our half of the road which I didn't really ask for to begin with but seemed to just happen (I was overcorrecting, I'm guessing?) Jim thought it was something we asked for and didn't know it.
Well, any tips from those more experienced would be great. I've thinking of buying a video in lieu of lessons, since there is no one in the area that gives them other than a very pricey carriage showing barn that would be so expensive!
Question: I wanted to start right in holding the whip and trying to hold the reins properly, hubby (backseat driver) insisted I quit waving that thing around and took it away. Mare didn't care although I got some ear whirling when I tried to touch her as backup to my rein work. Is it OK to leave off the whip work until I have a better handle on driving, or lessons? I thought it was an integral part of the deal. Also, I didn't want to be on her mouth too hard and fell back on voice commands a lot, is this acceptable? It's a different feeling when you are used to riding and suddenly you're several feet back - I found myself peering around to try and see her head and obviously this isn't good form nor particularly useful. We also did some beautiful serpentines on our half of the road which I didn't really ask for to begin with but seemed to just happen (I was overcorrecting, I'm guessing?) Jim thought it was something we asked for and didn't know it.
Well, any tips from those more experienced would be great. I've thinking of buying a video in lieu of lessons, since there is no one in the area that gives them other than a very pricey carriage showing barn that would be so expensive!