I've been at my RS for nearly 4 years and in that time i've told a grand total of 2 people...and one of them has become a best mate! Since entering the crazy world of facebook and having my OH put that we're 'in a relationship' it's out there for all to see. My RI now knows cos she casually mentioned it one day and then i apologised for not telling her outright which she said was daft as it's irrelevant and gave me a big hug! If anyone else knows, majority of which are teenage girls who've all become 'friends' on facebook, they've not said. It's quite unusual there, i've never been asked about a boyfriend or husband...i guess the horses are more important which i'm pleased about, but it is something that hangs over me. As B.O.B says, they don't come out as straight, so unless i'm asked directly, it's nobody's business! I'll only say something if/when i feel confident to do so.
