I can be sort of shy sometimes so when someone takes over, I do not know how to approach them. Like, a few days ago I was putting a bridle on the horse and needed a little help. So someone came over and offered to help. I said surre
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and they took the bridle and put in on themselves without askinghow I needed the help.
I tryed to signal them by not lettnig go of the horse, but like I was dumb they said O, you can let go of the horse now. I can not stand it! THen, when they were done, they said something like, " sometimes you need to BLAH BLAH BLAH. I already knew that. Plus, they knew nothing about the horse bacause you didn not have to do that to CAndy! I jtold them that. I am als o going to horse camp and will not enjoy that if they are taking over! I need A LOT of suggestions on how to approach them. I need to say something small. DO not tell me to straightforward. I am very shy and could not handle that. I know that I am overreacting and that they mean to be nice but still... you know. The more suggestions the better. HELP!