Apols if I am opening a can of worms but just thought it would be nice to start a debate! I went to see a Kelly Marks demo at Your Horse Live. It was lots of fun, and Pie was really naughty which was hilarious, but one of the things I don't really get is - why would you particularly want your horse to walk over black tarpaulin or through one of those dangly butcher's curtains? I understand about desensitising your horse, but surely you only need to desensitise to things you might actually come across when riding? I can guarantee Rox is never going to need to walk through a dangly butcher's curtain!
It got me thinking. Kelly said that you shouldn't use physical strength to make a horse do something when it's afraid, which I agree with. So today I took Rox into the school, and she spooked massively every single time we went past the jumps she sees every day. And jumps. And isn't actually scared of. She just didn't want to work in the school - we'd been out for a hack, and she hadn't spooked once at leaf blowers, lorries with ladders on, the bin lorry etc - so she got a smack with the whip and a kick on through. Generally, my reaction when she spooks is to say, 'don't be silly, it's fine, nothing to worry about' and ignore the scary thing so she knows it's nothing to worry about, put my leg on if necessary and then she's fine. Isn't there a danger with NH that the horse just gets to choose what it wants to do and what it doesn't? I also see people using it as an excuse not to get on the horse and actually ride - of course, if they don't want to ride that's fine, but there's one lady on my old yard who won't ride unless her horse indicates that it's happy to be ridden. It shows it's unhappy by moving when she tries to get on. So she almost never rides! I think that's my main issue with the whole thing. What are your thoughts on NH?
It got me thinking. Kelly said that you shouldn't use physical strength to make a horse do something when it's afraid, which I agree with. So today I took Rox into the school, and she spooked massively every single time we went past the jumps she sees every day. And jumps. And isn't actually scared of. She just didn't want to work in the school - we'd been out for a hack, and she hadn't spooked once at leaf blowers, lorries with ladders on, the bin lorry etc - so she got a smack with the whip and a kick on through. Generally, my reaction when she spooks is to say, 'don't be silly, it's fine, nothing to worry about' and ignore the scary thing so she knows it's nothing to worry about, put my leg on if necessary and then she's fine. Isn't there a danger with NH that the horse just gets to choose what it wants to do and what it doesn't? I also see people using it as an excuse not to get on the horse and actually ride - of course, if they don't want to ride that's fine, but there's one lady on my old yard who won't ride unless her horse indicates that it's happy to be ridden. It shows it's unhappy by moving when she tries to get on. So she almost never rides! I think that's my main issue with the whole thing. What are your thoughts on NH?