Hi All
Bit of advice needed please. I am a 43 yr old Mum of 3 kids my youngest 9 year old daughter who also rides We’ve both been riding 4 yrs Had loan pony beginning of this year Decided to take the plunge in Spring & bought a gorgeous little Irish cob aged 7years who was a little green but had such a laid back temperament he seemed perfect for us.
He was sold to me as a super safe confidence giver both on the ground & riding & indeed 99% of the time he was. However 3 weeks after I got him 2nd hack out (first was perfect & I had ridden him several times in school) he was like a different horse very spooky & shying at everything. On the way back at a steady walk he took off stopped dead, bucked & got me off. Someone else rode him home as I had hurt my back & I put his behaviour down to the fact that he was on very rich fresh grass which he was unused to, new surroundings & it was very windy etc. Week later I got back on & he was as good as gold in the school. In one schooling session we had 3 different people on his back & he didn’t bat an eyelid. I walked my 9 yr old round the field with him & she even cantered him & he was as good as gold even when the bird scarer went off. A couple of weeks later I was getting on him in the school when he moved forward & I landed on the back of the saddle ,he bucked me off again. Yes this time was probably my fault as I didn’t have anyone holding him. However it destroyed my confidence completely and I didn’t want to ride him again.
Because he was so good in every other way & so gentle with my daughter I kept him for another month to see how I felt & let a couple of girls on the yard ride him one of whom took him for a hack & in the same field where he got me off he tried the bucking thing with her but she rode through it & said she thought he was great & was just being silly.
As my confidence was dented so badly I let other people help to start with but this slowly just resulted in me losing even more confidence as sometimes I felt I couldn’t get near my own horse. As a novice owner it’s difficult to not be made to feel like an idiot & I let these girls gallop my horse round the fields & they said he was getting really strong & he did a mini rear when kicked on by one of them & took off with her. I then decided he was going back to the dealer I got him from (who incidentally was very supportive & understanding & said we could have an exchange or she could sell him on). I decided not to exchange as my confidence was shot but she has been working my boy to try to make him do it again because she said he had shown no signs of ever bucking at her yard. He has been with her for about 6 weeks now & not bucked at all. I went & rode him again & he was just perfect. I now don’t know whether to have him back & try again & put the bucking down to settling in or is it a deeper underlying issue? I am angry at myself for letting other people influence me but at the same time obviously safety comes first. I never really established a routine with him Could this have been the problem?
I had his teeth, back, feet, saddle checked & everything seemed fine
I really adore this boy & feel like I have failed him somehow. Anyone out there felt the same way or have advice to give I have been advised not to have him back but I am so confused?
BIG choc cake if you read all that!
Bit of advice needed please. I am a 43 yr old Mum of 3 kids my youngest 9 year old daughter who also rides We’ve both been riding 4 yrs Had loan pony beginning of this year Decided to take the plunge in Spring & bought a gorgeous little Irish cob aged 7years who was a little green but had such a laid back temperament he seemed perfect for us.
He was sold to me as a super safe confidence giver both on the ground & riding & indeed 99% of the time he was. However 3 weeks after I got him 2nd hack out (first was perfect & I had ridden him several times in school) he was like a different horse very spooky & shying at everything. On the way back at a steady walk he took off stopped dead, bucked & got me off. Someone else rode him home as I had hurt my back & I put his behaviour down to the fact that he was on very rich fresh grass which he was unused to, new surroundings & it was very windy etc. Week later I got back on & he was as good as gold in the school. In one schooling session we had 3 different people on his back & he didn’t bat an eyelid. I walked my 9 yr old round the field with him & she even cantered him & he was as good as gold even when the bird scarer went off. A couple of weeks later I was getting on him in the school when he moved forward & I landed on the back of the saddle ,he bucked me off again. Yes this time was probably my fault as I didn’t have anyone holding him. However it destroyed my confidence completely and I didn’t want to ride him again.
Because he was so good in every other way & so gentle with my daughter I kept him for another month to see how I felt & let a couple of girls on the yard ride him one of whom took him for a hack & in the same field where he got me off he tried the bucking thing with her but she rode through it & said she thought he was great & was just being silly.
As my confidence was dented so badly I let other people help to start with but this slowly just resulted in me losing even more confidence as sometimes I felt I couldn’t get near my own horse. As a novice owner it’s difficult to not be made to feel like an idiot & I let these girls gallop my horse round the fields & they said he was getting really strong & he did a mini rear when kicked on by one of them & took off with her. I then decided he was going back to the dealer I got him from (who incidentally was very supportive & understanding & said we could have an exchange or she could sell him on). I decided not to exchange as my confidence was shot but she has been working my boy to try to make him do it again because she said he had shown no signs of ever bucking at her yard. He has been with her for about 6 weeks now & not bucked at all. I went & rode him again & he was just perfect. I now don’t know whether to have him back & try again & put the bucking down to settling in or is it a deeper underlying issue? I am angry at myself for letting other people influence me but at the same time obviously safety comes first. I never really established a routine with him Could this have been the problem?
I had his teeth, back, feet, saddle checked & everything seemed fine
I really adore this boy & feel like I have failed him somehow. Anyone out there felt the same way or have advice to give I have been advised not to have him back but I am so confused?
BIG choc cake if you read all that!