Hi everyone, I am so happy to have found this lovely little community.
I rode obsessively when I was young, and picked it up again last year while living in the UK.
Yesterday, I went for a two-hour hack on a lovely horse in the Forest of Dean, through a local riding school. I used some NLP and visualising techniques before I went, and practised breathing on the ride, and it really helped me stay grounded (while in the stirrups hehe) and enjoy the experience. Of course, I'm kinda kicking myself for staying away from ponies for so darn long!
Anywho, today the outside of both knees are quite tender. I can't remember feeling this way after lessons last year. Could there have been something off with my leg position?
Another question I have (or perhaps a discussion really) is about ethical RS. I'm moving back to Australia next month, and would like to find a local school that does something similar to liberty, or natural horsemanship.
The RS I had two lessons at last year was pretty sad. Clearly my horse wasn't happy (and after reading books like Margrit Coates, and looking at some online liberty and tao horsemanship videos online, I take FULL responsibility for making him feel uneasy, through my body and confusing instructions). The instructor demanded I kick him over and over, and give him "a good whipping" to get him to behave. He bucked...no surprise there, right?
I've vowed never to get into that situation again. I don't want to be a better rider for me – I want to be a better rider for every horse I have the privilege to ride. So I'd love to know how to maybe screen schools and their instructors to check they are humane and loving.
Is it usually OK to observe a class? How else do you make sure they're doing the right thing by their horses?
I've been Googling ethical RS in Adelaide, where I'm moving to, but it looks like it's something I'll need to actually do in person.
Thank you! And so great to connect with you all here.
I rode obsessively when I was young, and picked it up again last year while living in the UK.
Yesterday, I went for a two-hour hack on a lovely horse in the Forest of Dean, through a local riding school. I used some NLP and visualising techniques before I went, and practised breathing on the ride, and it really helped me stay grounded (while in the stirrups hehe) and enjoy the experience. Of course, I'm kinda kicking myself for staying away from ponies for so darn long!
Anywho, today the outside of both knees are quite tender. I can't remember feeling this way after lessons last year. Could there have been something off with my leg position?
Another question I have (or perhaps a discussion really) is about ethical RS. I'm moving back to Australia next month, and would like to find a local school that does something similar to liberty, or natural horsemanship.
The RS I had two lessons at last year was pretty sad. Clearly my horse wasn't happy (and after reading books like Margrit Coates, and looking at some online liberty and tao horsemanship videos online, I take FULL responsibility for making him feel uneasy, through my body and confusing instructions). The instructor demanded I kick him over and over, and give him "a good whipping" to get him to behave. He bucked...no surprise there, right?
I've vowed never to get into that situation again. I don't want to be a better rider for me – I want to be a better rider for every horse I have the privilege to ride. So I'd love to know how to maybe screen schools and their instructors to check they are humane and loving.
Is it usually OK to observe a class? How else do you make sure they're doing the right thing by their horses?
I've been Googling ethical RS in Adelaide, where I'm moving to, but it looks like it's something I'll need to actually do in person.
Thank you! And so great to connect with you all here.