who has to pay for childcare?
our monthly bill is about £800, Sophie is in full time nursery mon-fri 7:30-5:30, and then we have a baby-sitter on a wed eve when we go to Pilates/hockey training. We sometimes need the babysitter on a saturday too if our hockey matches clash. Our family are all far away.
We just found out yesterday that our good friends (we met in hospital when we had our babies at the same time), are now pregnant with baby number two.....so uber chuffed for them, but it just highlights how we would like a second but realistically there is no way on this earth we can afford to pay more than £800 on childcare a month!
We have been very fortunate that OH changed his job last summer and has a higher wage now, and we saved for years before having Sophie so that we didnt have to change our lifestyle. Whenever our parents mention us having a second, we reply saying we can't afford it.....occasionally people mutter well maybe you should sell the horses......but the horses don't cost anywhere near £800 a month so even if i sold them it wouldn't mean we could afford another!
I can see why people just have one child.
our monthly bill is about £800, Sophie is in full time nursery mon-fri 7:30-5:30, and then we have a baby-sitter on a wed eve when we go to Pilates/hockey training. We sometimes need the babysitter on a saturday too if our hockey matches clash. Our family are all far away.
We just found out yesterday that our good friends (we met in hospital when we had our babies at the same time), are now pregnant with baby number two.....so uber chuffed for them, but it just highlights how we would like a second but realistically there is no way on this earth we can afford to pay more than £800 on childcare a month!
We have been very fortunate that OH changed his job last summer and has a higher wage now, and we saved for years before having Sophie so that we didnt have to change our lifestyle. Whenever our parents mention us having a second, we reply saying we can't afford it.....occasionally people mutter well maybe you should sell the horses......but the horses don't cost anywhere near £800 a month so even if i sold them it wouldn't mean we could afford another!
I can see why people just have one child.