I am at breaking point. I am not having fun. The only horse I have ever had that I felt safe, confident and had fun on was Willie. He is too old to take my weight now, if he wasn't I would still be out there having fun on him. Willie never put a hoof wrong, never did anythign to scare me. I barrel raced him, I did Western Pleasure on him, I jumped him english. Perfect horse.
Sigh, Pete spooked again today and added a buck while I was riding bareback. I just don't trust him. He is up for sale at a lower price, hoping someone is interested in him soon. I don't feel like riding him anymore. My confidence was shattered again today. I just want a horse I can have fun on. Something safe, I want to go back in time a couple years when Willie could be ridden.
Rode Gitcha again today.....sigh..... I really don't think I am ever going to get anywhere with him.I feel like I am going around in circles. I could never enter a show with him. I could never go barrel racing for fun, enter a Dressage class, Jump him. My instructor thinks he is my perfect horse,well if he is shouldn't I not be afraid of riding him? nervous every time I think about getting on, too sick and tired of the struggle? Don't get me wrong, Gitcha is a good boy, I just am still not positive he is the horse that my confidence needs. I keep trying to canter him, but he takes advantage of my vulnerability during that moment and acts up badly.
Willie was my perfect horse. I think I am done now. I have tried twice to get a horse like Willie after he went lame. I failed twice. Gitcha, too much horse for me, much too fast. Pete, sigh, good amount of horse for me, but I don't trust him anymore. I can't sit his bucks easily, I don't need a horse who spooks all the time and tries to buck his rider off.
I just don't know what to do. I am at breaking point. Considering just giving everything up for awhile. I love my horses, but the two rideable ones I have are not what my confidence needs at this point.
Sigh, Pete spooked again today and added a buck while I was riding bareback. I just don't trust him. He is up for sale at a lower price, hoping someone is interested in him soon. I don't feel like riding him anymore. My confidence was shattered again today. I just want a horse I can have fun on. Something safe, I want to go back in time a couple years when Willie could be ridden.
Rode Gitcha again today.....sigh..... I really don't think I am ever going to get anywhere with him.I feel like I am going around in circles. I could never enter a show with him. I could never go barrel racing for fun, enter a Dressage class, Jump him. My instructor thinks he is my perfect horse,well if he is shouldn't I not be afraid of riding him? nervous every time I think about getting on, too sick and tired of the struggle? Don't get me wrong, Gitcha is a good boy, I just am still not positive he is the horse that my confidence needs. I keep trying to canter him, but he takes advantage of my vulnerability during that moment and acts up badly.
Willie was my perfect horse. I think I am done now. I have tried twice to get a horse like Willie after he went lame. I failed twice. Gitcha, too much horse for me, much too fast. Pete, sigh, good amount of horse for me, but I don't trust him anymore. I can't sit his bucks easily, I don't need a horse who spooks all the time and tries to buck his rider off.
I just don't know what to do. I am at breaking point. Considering just giving everything up for awhile. I love my horses, but the two rideable ones I have are not what my confidence needs at this point.