This is less of a "is it cruel" thread - and more of a "what would you have said" query.
I had a rare morning off today , didn't ride unfortunately as my hair was in dire need of a trim and colour (and I have a wedding on Saturday ). So off I trotted to the hairdressers, had a "are you holidaying this year" chat with said hairdresser, and then ignored the magazines in favour of chatting to the lady next to me whilst my dye developed.
We had a lovely natter, but hit a sticky point when I told her I had horses.
She was very polite about it all, but made it quite clear that she felt horse riding was cruel.
Now I've only ever met afew people with this opinion, and the lady today wasn't pushy with it (her daughter had horses too so I suspect she was fairly resigned to the idea).
But I have previously met afew "I'm a vegetarian, horse riding is slavery" folks who not only could you not possibly debate sensibly with, but you couldn't get a word in edgeways either.
My experience of dealing with this sort is to change the subject ASAP .
But I always think it is a very hard subject to debate.
I don't think anyone would dispute that horses can't be MADE to do things they really don't want to do.
But they can be convinced that this is the way things are - they are ridden for our enjoyment, if they like it - great, if not - tough.
And that if they misbehave, we're justified in using a "force" - ie, shouting, a smack etc.
Please don't misunderstand me here - if I felt riding was cruel I wouldn't do it. But I do find myself struggling to work out my exact thoughts on the matter. I realise that's a contradiction - but I hope I've been clear enough.
Thoughts?
I had a rare morning off today , didn't ride unfortunately as my hair was in dire need of a trim and colour (and I have a wedding on Saturday ). So off I trotted to the hairdressers, had a "are you holidaying this year" chat with said hairdresser, and then ignored the magazines in favour of chatting to the lady next to me whilst my dye developed.
We had a lovely natter, but hit a sticky point when I told her I had horses.
She was very polite about it all, but made it quite clear that she felt horse riding was cruel.
Now I've only ever met afew people with this opinion, and the lady today wasn't pushy with it (her daughter had horses too so I suspect she was fairly resigned to the idea).
But I have previously met afew "I'm a vegetarian, horse riding is slavery" folks who not only could you not possibly debate sensibly with, but you couldn't get a word in edgeways either.
My experience of dealing with this sort is to change the subject ASAP .
But I always think it is a very hard subject to debate.
I don't think anyone would dispute that horses can't be MADE to do things they really don't want to do.
But they can be convinced that this is the way things are - they are ridden for our enjoyment, if they like it - great, if not - tough.
And that if they misbehave, we're justified in using a "force" - ie, shouting, a smack etc.
Please don't misunderstand me here - if I felt riding was cruel I wouldn't do it. But I do find myself struggling to work out my exact thoughts on the matter. I realise that's a contradiction - but I hope I've been clear enough.
Thoughts?