OK recently I discovered that my dad of xx years in fact might not be. I do know who the other person could be, the previous husband. Its a case of I could be related to either because of how close the dates are.
The ex MIL was convinced in fact I was her grand daughter, she did some tracing years ago, unbeknown to me. I had an odd feeling that I could belong to someone else but that's not scientific!
Now my quandary is, do I ignore and just hide under the nearest carpet? Could you or would you really want to know. Bearing in mind I am an adult of xx years, not in my twenties etc. So why bother?
Would it change anything, no, I still see my dad as my dad. But my concern is I could be tracked down. Obviously if this has just come to light in conversation, then the other party also could bring things to light.
The ex MIL was convinced in fact I was her grand daughter, she did some tracing years ago, unbeknown to me. I had an odd feeling that I could belong to someone else but that's not scientific!
Now my quandary is, do I ignore and just hide under the nearest carpet? Could you or would you really want to know. Bearing in mind I am an adult of xx years, not in my twenties etc. So why bother?
Would it change anything, no, I still see my dad as my dad. But my concern is I could be tracked down. Obviously if this has just come to light in conversation, then the other party also could bring things to light.