I have ridden for many years and my life mainly revolves around horse activities. But I’ve had a recent run of bad things happening - very special horse I’d had for years died unexpectedly last year. After that I summoned all of my energy into trying to find a suitable next horse, bought one, turned out to rear and buck. Previous owners said this behaviour had never happened before so I don’t know if that is true, or if I somehow ruined this horse. After trying to persevere but having fall after fall, and some serious injuries I decided i could not keep going and in the best interest of the horse, and for me, I sold that horse on. This was a terribly tough decision to make, and if this was not difficult enough, I’ve had backlash about turning the horse over quickly.
I’ve been trying to get back into lessons on school horses but I’m finding that hard going. My confidence is completely shot and the last thing I want to do is buy another horse. I’m too worried about it all going wrong again. I can see everyone around me progresing, having fun and enjoying their horses, and don’t get me wrong I’m very pleased for them and I love seeing other people succeed, but I’m going backwards fast and it’s a horrible feeling. For the first time ever, I really feel like giving up on horses completely. I’ve just lost faith in the horse world.
if anyone has been in a similar situation did you find a way forward?
I’ve been trying to get back into lessons on school horses but I’m finding that hard going. My confidence is completely shot and the last thing I want to do is buy another horse. I’m too worried about it all going wrong again. I can see everyone around me progresing, having fun and enjoying their horses, and don’t get me wrong I’m very pleased for them and I love seeing other people succeed, but I’m going backwards fast and it’s a horrible feeling. For the first time ever, I really feel like giving up on horses completely. I’ve just lost faith in the horse world.
if anyone has been in a similar situation did you find a way forward?