***UPDATE***
Oh guys, I dont even know where to start I really dont.
Firstly, thanks to everyone who has taken the time to read/comment/help/advise. I honestly appreciate so much, and love having a little support network to turn too.
Since sunday she seemed to get much better day by day, less nervy and spooky, much more calm and relaxed. Tuesday, she was actually really loving during a grooming session we had; so much so that I decided to bite the bullet and book a lesson in for yesterday with my instructor.
Lesson was going really well. Up until our 3rd lap of trot of the school. She slowed down to walk without me asking, so i quietly put my leg on to ask her to go forwards, and I got 3 big bucks.
1st buck I sat to, 2nd unseated me, 3rd had me off.
Long story short I was in hospital yesterday and back to fracture clinic today. Iv fractured 2 vertebrates in my back and I am lucky i have no nerve damage, sounds like I got off really lightly.
My own stupid fault for not wearing a BP. I just didnt think id need one with her. I was told by her old owner she didnt even know how to buck or have a rider off. I rode her a few different times on trial and she was the perfect little schoolmistress pony. One day it was pouring with rain and windy and i had a schooling lesson on her, she genuinely made me feel so safe and confident.
I cant ride for 3 months now.
I have no idea what to do moving forwards. Old owners are shocked and upset shes done this, but wont have her back from me?
No one at my yard will get on her after this, tbh no one is small enough either. All the girls have said theyd give her back in my position, but obviously this isn't an option.
Old owners, and previous ones before them too have all said shes unsettled and scared of me due to the elec shock, but i dont know what to believe it seems a bit extreme to me over an electric shock.
All tack I got with her is the same as what i tried her in, just a new numnah
She saw dentist not long ago and back was also checked not long ago too according to owner.
Feeling really sorry for myself and almost regretting my decision to get back into horses now. Im terrified shes shattered my confidence. Im unsure if ill ever be able to trust her again now.
Any kind words or advise would be much appreciated.
My head is everywhere not to mention i am still dosed up on morphine, but im thinking schooling livery untill i am able to ride again its just a bloody expense and a route i never expected to be to going down after buying my ‘confidence giving mare’ X