I am very impressed with the way Jonto has set about learning to ride. His "diary" is amusing and informative and he just ouzes confidence!
Looking at these threads I think nearly all the tearful pleas for confidence giving advice and beating ourselves up for not wanting to canter etc all seem to come from us women!! (I know someone out there will correct me - there must be at least one shrinking violet amongst you fellows!).
My husband learned to ride about 18 months - 2 years ago and is like Jonto, pretty confident. Loves to canter, does a bit of jumping, and generally really enjoys it. Never sits at home dreading his next lesson! He only ever fell off once - out on a hack the first time he cantered outside - but he managed to get back on and got on with it. I know though he finds hacking with me dull, with no cantering but he does go out with those who like the faster stuff. He is very sensible and safe though and so is his horse. He quite often hacks alone although we often go togethr. I paid for him to learn to ride so he could accompany the nervous me!!
What do other think about the great male/female divide?!!
You see I think most men for instance are far more confident behind the wheel of a car. My hubby whizzes up and down motorways in the fast lane - he is a great driver, while I avoid motorway wherever possible. I know I am a wimp. Still we all know that we ladies are far more sensitive than blokes!!!
Snowflake
I think this might be in twice, sorry)
Looking at these threads I think nearly all the tearful pleas for confidence giving advice and beating ourselves up for not wanting to canter etc all seem to come from us women!! (I know someone out there will correct me - there must be at least one shrinking violet amongst you fellows!).
My husband learned to ride about 18 months - 2 years ago and is like Jonto, pretty confident. Loves to canter, does a bit of jumping, and generally really enjoys it. Never sits at home dreading his next lesson! He only ever fell off once - out on a hack the first time he cantered outside - but he managed to get back on and got on with it. I know though he finds hacking with me dull, with no cantering but he does go out with those who like the faster stuff. He is very sensible and safe though and so is his horse. He quite often hacks alone although we often go togethr. I paid for him to learn to ride so he could accompany the nervous me!!
What do other think about the great male/female divide?!!
You see I think most men for instance are far more confident behind the wheel of a car. My hubby whizzes up and down motorways in the fast lane - he is a great driver, while I avoid motorway wherever possible. I know I am a wimp. Still we all know that we ladies are far more sensitive than blokes!!!
Snowflake
I think this might be in twice, sorry)
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