Sorrry this will be very long and ranty. I had a horrid lesson last night. My usual instructor was ill so I joined a group lesson with the senior instructor instead. I’ve had lessons before with her and we didn’t really gel, but in the circumstances I was happy to fit in.
I was continually told to get after the pony I was riding, give him a kick, give him a smack, he’s being lazy. I brought him slightly off the track to do some canter work because it has got very churned up and boggy. Instructor yelled why the **** aren’t you using the corners of the school, are you being lazy or are you out of control? The whole tone of the lesson was pretty much the same.
Pony is a stressy type and whip-shy but very willing. After my warm up he was forward, round, and swinging through his back. Don’t get me wrong, I know I’m far from perfect and there was plenty to work on, but lazy he wasn’t.
We were working on lengthening and shortening the trot over poles. The distance was set to accommodate the 3 15hh+ horses in the group, so pony had to really reach, and he was working his little socks off for me. We came over the poles towards the corner where the RI was standing, in what was pretty much a full on extended trot.
RI stepped forward suddenly and flung out both arms just as we came over the last pole, right in front of us. Pony spun 180 degrees and plunged back over the poles in canter then shot off around the school. He was startled but came back to walk and settled down. Turned to the RI and said 'whoops, what happened there?'. Frankly I was expecting an apology. Instead I got an earful about my bad riding and was told to haul on the left rein and whack him, and that she was surprised I hadn't fallen off.
I was absolutely fuming by this point, so rather than explode I dropped my reins on the pony's neck and turned him away. After shouting after me for a bit the RI turned her attention back to the other riders, so I ran through the exercise once more to finish on a good note then dismounted.
I have no idea what any of this was about - she was fine with the other riders in the group. I didn't get a single positive or constructive comment, and I now really don't trust this RI's judgement. Lessons with my usual teacher are very different, but this one is her boss. I don't know whether I want to go back to the RS or not.
Part of me says stick with it but turn down lessons with SRI in future, the other part says run far away! I have other options / horses to ride, but lessons are harder to come by. Help :help:
I was continually told to get after the pony I was riding, give him a kick, give him a smack, he’s being lazy. I brought him slightly off the track to do some canter work because it has got very churned up and boggy. Instructor yelled why the **** aren’t you using the corners of the school, are you being lazy or are you out of control? The whole tone of the lesson was pretty much the same.
Pony is a stressy type and whip-shy but very willing. After my warm up he was forward, round, and swinging through his back. Don’t get me wrong, I know I’m far from perfect and there was plenty to work on, but lazy he wasn’t.
We were working on lengthening and shortening the trot over poles. The distance was set to accommodate the 3 15hh+ horses in the group, so pony had to really reach, and he was working his little socks off for me. We came over the poles towards the corner where the RI was standing, in what was pretty much a full on extended trot.
RI stepped forward suddenly and flung out both arms just as we came over the last pole, right in front of us. Pony spun 180 degrees and plunged back over the poles in canter then shot off around the school. He was startled but came back to walk and settled down. Turned to the RI and said 'whoops, what happened there?'. Frankly I was expecting an apology. Instead I got an earful about my bad riding and was told to haul on the left rein and whack him, and that she was surprised I hadn't fallen off.
I was absolutely fuming by this point, so rather than explode I dropped my reins on the pony's neck and turned him away. After shouting after me for a bit the RI turned her attention back to the other riders, so I ran through the exercise once more to finish on a good note then dismounted.
I have no idea what any of this was about - she was fine with the other riders in the group. I didn't get a single positive or constructive comment, and I now really don't trust this RI's judgement. Lessons with my usual teacher are very different, but this one is her boss. I don't know whether I want to go back to the RS or not.
Part of me says stick with it but turn down lessons with SRI in future, the other part says run far away! I have other options / horses to ride, but lessons are harder to come by. Help :help: