I am asking this pretty deep question as i have found it so hard to deal with my issues (over sensitivity) in the tough world of equestrianism. Look at these questions and if you answer YES to ALL or MOST of these then you may fall into the "over sensitive" catagory aswell and offer me advice:
Are you unable to tolerate criticism?
Do you hate loud noise or loud music?
Do you feel other people's pain and suffering more than anyone else?
Are you different in body shape/size than peers?
Do you stop for more than three minutes when you see an accident on the street in order to watch?
Do you find it very high to tolerate high or low temperatures?
Do you find it very hard to gain muscles by working out?
Do you have lots of mood swings as a result of small events?
I would really like to know how those of you cope on a livery yard where day to day "unwanted advice" or "critism" is the norm. Obviously horsey people do like to give their opinions etc, but what if you, like me take it so personally that you punnish yourself for days ??? Would you tell people if coming onto a new yard that you are over sensitive, or would you just let people find out. I only ask this as, i myself cant cope at a livery yard but wish i could as life having horses on your own is a little lonely.
Here is an article re over sensitivity: (click on link)
http://www.content4reprint.com/busi...e-turn-your-remarkable-gifts-into-success.htm
Thanks, Speedy xxx
Are you unable to tolerate criticism?
Do you hate loud noise or loud music?
Do you feel other people's pain and suffering more than anyone else?
Are you different in body shape/size than peers?
Do you stop for more than three minutes when you see an accident on the street in order to watch?
Do you find it very high to tolerate high or low temperatures?
Do you find it very hard to gain muscles by working out?
Do you have lots of mood swings as a result of small events?
I would really like to know how those of you cope on a livery yard where day to day "unwanted advice" or "critism" is the norm. Obviously horsey people do like to give their opinions etc, but what if you, like me take it so personally that you punnish yourself for days ??? Would you tell people if coming onto a new yard that you are over sensitive, or would you just let people find out. I only ask this as, i myself cant cope at a livery yard but wish i could as life having horses on your own is a little lonely.
Here is an article re over sensitivity: (click on link)
http://www.content4reprint.com/busi...e-turn-your-remarkable-gifts-into-success.htm
Thanks, Speedy xxx
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