You have a longtime male friend stay at yours with their horse. You make it known way before this that you want to set out at 8am. They make all the right noises but don't actually mention they don't want to get up early until the evening before.
Reason, they are tired by the end of the week. This annoyed me because I wish they had actually said. It meant a complete alteration in what we did due to lack of time.
Fast forward and I get woken up at 6am Sunday morning by them informing me they are on way to a competiton. I have fixed this by turning vibrate off!!!
I do now feel they couldn't be bothered to make the effort for me but they can if competing.
Would you feel miffed and that they are selfish? I can't even work why you would text someone that early, it almost feels as if they are making a point but I could be over thinking.
They probably haven't!!
I have included gender because my other friend says men are selfish and they just don't think about anyone else.
Side note I do find those who text at unsocial hours to be rude. You wouldn't actually call someone at 6am. The response was turn your phone off, not them for sending the text so darn early.
I think this friendship has seen it's day to be honest.
Reason, they are tired by the end of the week. This annoyed me because I wish they had actually said. It meant a complete alteration in what we did due to lack of time.
Fast forward and I get woken up at 6am Sunday morning by them informing me they are on way to a competiton. I have fixed this by turning vibrate off!!!
I do now feel they couldn't be bothered to make the effort for me but they can if competing.
Would you feel miffed and that they are selfish? I can't even work why you would text someone that early, it almost feels as if they are making a point but I could be over thinking.
They probably haven't!!
I have included gender because my other friend says men are selfish and they just don't think about anyone else.
Side note I do find those who text at unsocial hours to be rude. You wouldn't actually call someone at 6am. The response was turn your phone off, not them for sending the text so darn early.
I think this friendship has seen it's day to be honest.