So back to the 'husband or horse thread':
I hadn't had a chance to see the horse all of last week and the OH was gone on a business trip.
OH returned yesterday which also happened to be the first night I would have had time to ride!
So after knowing he would be disappointed to come home and me not be there I decided to pack the man in the truck and take him to the barn with me....
That way I can see my horse without hurting OH's feelings.
Riding went okay. I let him help with bathing etc.
Then the horse and I walked out in the back pasture where the grass is lush. I walk him that far so that he will stay there and graze.
But when I turn around I see the silly horse is coming back to the barn with me. So without much thinking I turned towards him and shushed him away. I ran just a couple of steps to get him to trot off. He joined the herd and was fine. I figured as a boss mare I can ask him to stay in the back pasture, can't I?
When I got back to the barn, OH says I probably traumatised the horse and now he will never come to me or follow me around in the field again.
Surely that can't be true! But in horse language what do you think my horse understood from this little interaction? Did I confuse him?
How do I tell him when I want him to come along and when he needs to stay with his buddies?
I hadn't had a chance to see the horse all of last week and the OH was gone on a business trip.
OH returned yesterday which also happened to be the first night I would have had time to ride!
So after knowing he would be disappointed to come home and me not be there I decided to pack the man in the truck and take him to the barn with me....
That way I can see my horse without hurting OH's feelings.
Riding went okay. I let him help with bathing etc.
Then the horse and I walked out in the back pasture where the grass is lush. I walk him that far so that he will stay there and graze.
But when I turn around I see the silly horse is coming back to the barn with me. So without much thinking I turned towards him and shushed him away. I ran just a couple of steps to get him to trot off. He joined the herd and was fine. I figured as a boss mare I can ask him to stay in the back pasture, can't I?
When I got back to the barn, OH says I probably traumatised the horse and now he will never come to me or follow me around in the field again.
Surely that can't be true! But in horse language what do you think my horse understood from this little interaction? Did I confuse him?
How do I tell him when I want him to come along and when he needs to stay with his buddies?