One of the ponies was being bucket fed in the field tonight, and anyway bossy boots aka Connie came barrelling over, ears back, to stick her nose in - literally! I was the other side of the fence, but did my best Monty Roberts act. Hand out, looked her straight in the eye, and a very firm "NO!!!!" and kept my hand out. Madam stopped dead, looked at me as if to say "Ooh eer" and kept off that feed bucket. She was watching me like a hawk and had I relaxed she would have been in there, but with me one side of the fence, her, another mare and a feed bucket the other she stayed out of the way simply 'cos she was told to. The yard owner was impressed. So was I but did not say so. One must be seen to be noncholent about these things!