Help... my daughters pony has a tendency to always nap towards the gate of any arena or school we are in. At home she is on top of this and just gives him a short smack on the neck and he gives up pretty quickly. At competitions he is impossible and will nap back to the gate as soon as he can by dropping his should and spinning usually resulting in my daughter falling off. Should we just be firmer??? My daughter perseveres but she is always eliminated through a fall or refusals at competitions although she will usually finally get him round. I don’t want her to end up hurt. He is ridden in a snaffle and is 14 years old. His previous owner competed him without these problems although he has always been a napper. Thanks