hiya all...im new here and have recently purchased my new horse after being away from horses for 10 long years. after searching for months to find the 'right' horse for me, i fell in love with tetley!! i was originally looking for a bit of a plod to get me back into it but then tetley came along. we instantly felt comfortable with eachother and i knew he was the one for me even though the lady selling him described him as a bit of a problem, actually she didnt really have a good word to say about him!! after doing all the usual health checks i decided to go for it and buy him. that was 2 months ago now and he is in no way a problem, i have spent as much time as possible with him developing a bond and building trust and things are good. he used to be a bit bargy and strong but i have stood my ground and let him know that i will not accept that behaviour and he has calmed down alot.
the only problem i find that he has is that he has obviously not been taught to stand still for anything (or forgotten in a cheeky way). can anyone suggest any tips i can try to get him to stand still while being groomed, tacked up, mounted etc... most people i ask at my yard suggest 'firm handed' things which i do not want to do as i do not want to lose the trust he has in me
the only problem i find that he has is that he has obviously not been taught to stand still for anything (or forgotten in a cheeky way). can anyone suggest any tips i can try to get him to stand still while being groomed, tacked up, mounted etc... most people i ask at my yard suggest 'firm handed' things which i do not want to do as i do not want to lose the trust he has in me