After almost always having private lessons I have started doing a PRT course at my RS. I am in a group with three teenagers, all of whom of course ride much better than I do (I am an ancient of 38). My RI says I ride much worse in group lessons than in private lessons (I know she is right) because I get tense, but she also says I have to get past it and get on with it! (and she is right of course ).
However, it isn't helped by the options of horses available to me. Last night I was riding a stubborn old dear. She is very hard to get going, partly because she has a very sensitive mouth - so it takes a lot of work to get her going, but if you then accidentally pull on her mouth - she stops again! In private lessons I like her despite this - as she is also very comfy to ride. However, she is also aggressive to other horses. So last night - I was over the moon to find she was finally trotting forwards freely - only to realise too late that it was because she was after biting the bum of the horse in front! He stopped suddenly - she got her way! Nothing disasterous happened. The horse in front was protected by his fluffy winter coat. But it wasn't fun. My RI would like to give me another horse - but various illnesses means she doesn't have a suitable candidate at the mo. The horse I ride in private lessons is never used in group lessons as she is very anti-social indeed.
So what should I do? Go back to my comfort zone of private lessons or stick with it. My dilemma is not helped by the fact that I know I am making life much harder for the others in my lesson.
However, it isn't helped by the options of horses available to me. Last night I was riding a stubborn old dear. She is very hard to get going, partly because she has a very sensitive mouth - so it takes a lot of work to get her going, but if you then accidentally pull on her mouth - she stops again! In private lessons I like her despite this - as she is also very comfy to ride. However, she is also aggressive to other horses. So last night - I was over the moon to find she was finally trotting forwards freely - only to realise too late that it was because she was after biting the bum of the horse in front! He stopped suddenly - she got her way! Nothing disasterous happened. The horse in front was protected by his fluffy winter coat. But it wasn't fun. My RI would like to give me another horse - but various illnesses means she doesn't have a suitable candidate at the mo. The horse I ride in private lessons is never used in group lessons as she is very anti-social indeed.
So what should I do? Go back to my comfort zone of private lessons or stick with it. My dilemma is not helped by the fact that I know I am making life much harder for the others in my lesson.