I'm having a mega crisis in confidence and feel very close to giving up. Several months ago my youngster fractured my wrist. It wasn't her fault, OH reved up a tractor only 20 yards from her and she kicked out as she galloped off. Unfortunately her hoof connected with my scaphoid and the hoof won! The fracture took a long time to heal and although I was back riding as soon as the cast was off (about eight weeks) my wrist wasn't right for about four months. Just as I recovered from that I was trying out a new saddle on my lovely, sedate, plod of a mare in our paddock. We walked down the paddock and were making our way back to the saddler when a bird scarer canon went off. The horse tensed but I reassured her and she carried on. Seconds later a flock of about 50 pigeons flew out of an oak tree and this was the final straw. Horse did a leap and went straight into gallop. She has never done anything like this before. I found myself on the ground and in agony. To cut a long sstory short I've fractured my spine. There is , thankfully, no damage to the spinal cord but it was a very close call and as you can imagine I am very shocked. I spent eight days in a hospital bed and although I'm now back home I'm in a lot of pain and it will be at least three months before I can get back on a horse. But I'm doubting I ever will. I could so easily have been paralysed.
On the other hand I so love my horses and they are a huge part of my life. I ride every day. I've had my share of falls but nothing as serious as this, I usually get away with mild concussion or a bruise. I'm beginning to think that riding again would be unfair to my OH and children....what if I was paralysed in the next fall.
Any advice would be very gratefully recieved.
On the other hand I so love my horses and they are a huge part of my life. I ride every day. I've had my share of falls but nothing as serious as this, I usually get away with mild concussion or a bruise. I'm beginning to think that riding again would be unfair to my OH and children....what if I was paralysed in the next fall.
Any advice would be very gratefully recieved.