Today my gardener Mike brought his 8-year old son around to meet Sid. C is mad keen on horses, he just loves them, though he has not had a chance to meet many.
They came over to the field with me. I had baited the shelter with hay so Sid was right there! C was initially a bit overawed by how big Sid seemed, but he soon forgot the nerves and very politely held out his hand for Sid to sniff. I wasn't sure how Sid would feel about taking care of another child, and he was quite wary initially, but C was calm and friendly and after a little while Sid relaxed too.
I chatted away to C about how I got Sid, and what he was like when I got him, while I got out the bareback pad and put it on. C asked intelligent questions about scabby legs on feathery cobs - I was amazed but he said there's a lady with feathery cobs who posts on Tik Tok about scabby legs and feet! Sid didn't turn a hair as I tacked him up, which was nice. I said we would manage without a bridle this time but maybe put the bridle on next time. Mike stepped in to lift C on board and Sid and I took him for a ride around the field.
C absolutely loved it
and Sid seemed happy and relaxed too. He went the whole way with his head down low, just tootling along. But he is a good responsive boy. Once we got back to the flat by the shelter I offered C a little trot and he said Yes, so I told Sid to trot on and ran beside. He trotted immediately, but much more slowly than he would do with me on board! Such a sweetie.
I showed C how to get off properly and he slid all the way down to the ground with the biggest grin on his face. Then I suggested he hang out with Sid for a bit and he was eager to do so. There was a little hay left, and Sid nommed down on it while I showed C how to pick out his feet and treat his mallenders, but before all the hay was gone Sid stopped eating and manoeuvred himself broadside on to me, Mike and C so that all 3 of us could scratch him at once.
When we left he followed us to the gate, but at that point he seemed a bit stressed, with ears back. C said, "Maybe he thinks you want to sell him to me, and he says he doesn't want to". I thought that was an enlightened comment!
C asked so politely if he could come back and see Sid again, and of course I said yes. It felt lovely to make him so happy!