Sorry to have a moan but i am feeling really upset this morning!
Basically i saw can advert recently for a horse to part loan who was just my cup of tea plus the loan rate was extreemly cheap as the horse can only be used for hacking. I expressed an interest to the owner explaining that i had been loaning a horse just nearby but due to perm lameness i reluctantly gave her up. I was very nice about the owner and horse just incase she knew them. I also mentioned how lovely the lady who indroduced me to the owner and horse was in case she knew her too! Turns out she loaned the same horse a few years ago but had problems with her going lame when the cold weather hit and that she knew the owner and lady who indroduced me to the owner really well.
I emailed back to say that it was a small world and that i was sorry to give her up but i couldnt continue to pay for a horse that was lame each time i rode her. She emailed back to say she would love me to meet her and horse, unforunatley i was working the day she wanted me to come so she asked me to come this Sunday at 3. Unfortnatley, i wasnt able to reply via email the same day as my laptop was playing up. She sent me a rather panicked email saying that she hadnt heard from me and asked me if i was still interested. I replied as soon as ciuld, apologising for delay but that i was still interested and that my delay (1day) was due to laptop issue and asked her how was best for me to find the yard.
This was two days ago, i have heard nothing at all. Know i feel that something has been said to her which has put me in a bad light. The loan was ended i thought in a ok way as owner said she couldnt expect me to pay for a horse i couldnt ride and even aplogised that she wasnt in a position to afford a vet to investigate. I looked after the horse like she was my own and was only ever polite and appreciate to the lady who indroduced us.
I hate to think that i am being bad mouthed in anyway or that things are being said behind my back.
Going forward i dont know what to do, do i send a further email asking if everything is ok or do i just forget the whole thing?
Basically i saw can advert recently for a horse to part loan who was just my cup of tea plus the loan rate was extreemly cheap as the horse can only be used for hacking. I expressed an interest to the owner explaining that i had been loaning a horse just nearby but due to perm lameness i reluctantly gave her up. I was very nice about the owner and horse just incase she knew them. I also mentioned how lovely the lady who indroduced me to the owner and horse was in case she knew her too! Turns out she loaned the same horse a few years ago but had problems with her going lame when the cold weather hit and that she knew the owner and lady who indroduced me to the owner really well.
I emailed back to say that it was a small world and that i was sorry to give her up but i couldnt continue to pay for a horse that was lame each time i rode her. She emailed back to say she would love me to meet her and horse, unforunatley i was working the day she wanted me to come so she asked me to come this Sunday at 3. Unfortnatley, i wasnt able to reply via email the same day as my laptop was playing up. She sent me a rather panicked email saying that she hadnt heard from me and asked me if i was still interested. I replied as soon as ciuld, apologising for delay but that i was still interested and that my delay (1day) was due to laptop issue and asked her how was best for me to find the yard.
This was two days ago, i have heard nothing at all. Know i feel that something has been said to her which has put me in a bad light. The loan was ended i thought in a ok way as owner said she couldnt expect me to pay for a horse i couldnt ride and even aplogised that she wasnt in a position to afford a vet to investigate. I looked after the horse like she was my own and was only ever polite and appreciate to the lady who indroduced us.
I hate to think that i am being bad mouthed in anyway or that things are being said behind my back.
Going forward i dont know what to do, do i send a further email asking if everything is ok or do i just forget the whole thing?