hi all
well i havent been online much recently, due to the fact i have had a friend around for the 6 week hols and she gets very bored when i spend every waking minute on the internet!!
anyway my problem, you guys are the only "real" people i can turn to right now.....it is to do with giving up riding, no never thought id say that in my life.
it all started when this girl started pestering me to ride the horse i ride in my jumping lessons and all the shows, she belongs to my YO/IN.
i at the moment have 2 lessons a week, 1 being jumping and the other being flatwork, etc.
without fail i always ride charlie, my fave horse i just feel so close to her and we always get placed at shows, but yesterday i had to ride aggy in the flatwork instead of charlie, but i was willing so when it came to trotting and cantering w/out stirrups, no joke i came so close to falling off, the saddle digs in to me so badly and well the horse is EXTEREMELY BUMPY!
then my instructor said she needed to proove a point and show me i was the one at fault not the horse
so she asked me to canter round on charlie w/out stirrups-and i could do it perfectly, she didnt have much to say after thatt!!
since this one girl saw me ride aggy, she says "youre brilliant at him, far better than charlie, you should seriously stick with aggy!"
now this is the same girl who wanted charlie so bad for jumping>
do i believe her ever so innocent praise, or is it that she still wants me to move over so she can ride charlie- and id ride aggy?%&*$%!!*%
so many thongs are going wrong lately-this is why i dont know what to do
thanks for reading all this malarchi(sp?) i just need some advice desperately!!---
before i lose my temper with these people at the stables and do something i regret.
well i havent been online much recently, due to the fact i have had a friend around for the 6 week hols and she gets very bored when i spend every waking minute on the internet!!
anyway my problem, you guys are the only "real" people i can turn to right now.....it is to do with giving up riding, no never thought id say that in my life.
it all started when this girl started pestering me to ride the horse i ride in my jumping lessons and all the shows, she belongs to my YO/IN.
i at the moment have 2 lessons a week, 1 being jumping and the other being flatwork, etc.
without fail i always ride charlie, my fave horse i just feel so close to her and we always get placed at shows, but yesterday i had to ride aggy in the flatwork instead of charlie, but i was willing so when it came to trotting and cantering w/out stirrups, no joke i came so close to falling off, the saddle digs in to me so badly and well the horse is EXTEREMELY BUMPY!
then my instructor said she needed to proove a point and show me i was the one at fault not the horse
so she asked me to canter round on charlie w/out stirrups-and i could do it perfectly, she didnt have much to say after thatt!!
since this one girl saw me ride aggy, she says "youre brilliant at him, far better than charlie, you should seriously stick with aggy!"
now this is the same girl who wanted charlie so bad for jumping>
do i believe her ever so innocent praise, or is it that she still wants me to move over so she can ride charlie- and id ride aggy?%&*$%!!*%
so many thongs are going wrong lately-this is why i dont know what to do
thanks for reading all this malarchi(sp?) i just need some advice desperately!!---
before i lose my temper with these people at the stables and do something i regret.