I help at my neigbors equestrian therapy program and recently someone donated a 6year old pony to them. They asked me to take on the responsibility of working with this pony on the weekends and when the program is not running becuase i am not alowd to get one of my own. This pony has outsmated that owner of the barn and the trainer that works there and I don't know how. He has showed them that he doesn't know his leads, then he can't back up and that he doesn't bend well when yet the first day I rode him he did it all perffectly fine for me and I don't know y becuase I am a beggining rider so i would think that he would take advatage of that but since the trainer is letting him get away with so much he won't listen to me anymore. He has also gotten in the habbit of rearing up and I know that isn't good. I need advice on how to get him to listen again and how to show the other people that he does know what he is doing. My friend is helping me ride him becuase i just had knee surgery and can't for a little while and sghe is a pretty experianced horse rider and he is now doing the same for her. I don't want this pony to get the better of me becuase he knows that i am boss and listens well and now that im not ablw to ride for a little while i don't know if he will remeber that. I also don't want them to try to put a handicapped rider on him for indep[endent riding because i think that will deffinatly be a desater. Thanks for your help. -Amanda