I'm doing a two day course in November. I shall be reporting!
I don't know if it would help but one of my exam students was incredibly nervous about her riding as well as the exam. She went to a sports psychologist and hypnotist and went from being someone who would not ride in the indoor school without seeing the horse ridden first on to doing her stage 3 exam including SJ and XC. She is Midlands based but I can see if she has any recommendations.
Cathy Sirett works in your area. FTH on here or http://www.effectivehorsemanship.com/
She helped me massively with my confidence issues and supported me to go from 'haven't ridden in over a year and nauseous at the mere thought of getting on my horse' to 'going solo to novice endurance rides in the new forest' in less than 18 months. She gave me the tools to manage my own confidence and get past the irrational feelings, but also to recognise that not all of my fears were irrational and I had to become a better rider!
The trick is whether or not you then go on to working hard at it, using the tools that you were given or, as many people do, they attend the course but continue on the old same path, doing the same thing. You have to be ready and willing to take it all on board, keep pushing the edges of that comfort zone and keep on working at it. No one is going to 'fix you' but they can help you learn how to fix yourself
Best of luck whatever you decide.
I've dropped her an email so will see what she says. Thanks Anna. Did you really not ride your horse for a year? That gives me hope that I can get over this stupid blip!
You should have a read of Anna's blog squidsin, she was one of the reasons I stuck it out, seeing how much she has achieved, made it all seem possible!
Personally, I think you just have to keep chipping away at issues.
I found riding lessons on my own horse VERY helpful. I am not sure they made me any stickier in the saddle, but if he gets over excited now, I can make him leg yield or drop onto the bit etc. Nothing stops him bucking in times of high excitement, but the more he does the better he gets.
And I find the same. The more I do the less nervy I get. Sometimes you have to push your comfort zone a bit, it is not always pleasant but it is helpful.
Personally I would say it all depends on what you want to do with your horse. Sometimes you can't always be babysat and looked after, and only ever do things within your comfort zone, but I think to start with that is what you need. However, as time goes on and you hack out with loads of horses, or do fun rides where people overtake you, it isn't really fabby to start with, but kind of you have to deal with it because that is what is happening at that moment and then you realise that yes, your horse is getting excited, but you are there and you have to deal with it, and when you have you get more confident - if that makes any sense!!
I have done ridden courses, classroom courses, and I have to say they didn't help me at all. I know they do help people, but they didn't really help me.
Repetition and lessons and a good and supportive YO helped me.
Edited to add, it does all depend on why you are nervous. If your horse is difficult and has bucked you off etc. as mine did, pretending it didn't happen or shying away fromt he issue isn't helpful. If it is just in your mind, then courses probably do help
I think that confidence courses only work if you are working with your own horse on your own problems. I think that money would be better spent on having more lessons with Poppy at your yard.
Wow, that's quite expensive though! £545 for a 3 day riding holiday and that doesn't include accommodation - I've seen the same thing in Spain for a lot less!