My horse is pretty responsive to leg pressure, when i first got her I basically had to hold my legs away from her barrel when we rode. I've desensitized her some to it so she's not as responsive. But how do i ride the trot bareback without 'cueing' her when i don't mean to? I read you're supposed to hold on with your lower legs and others say let them hang 'loose'? I basically slide/bounce to the side usually when i try to trot.