Can't believe I'm having to deal with this again really, you think universities would be on top of this sort of thing.
I was bullied pretty badly as a kid and all through school and think I still wear the mental scars really. What we are going through at uni isn't that bad really but it takes it toll over time.
I've made a nice little group of friends who I'm very grateful for but the class is very much split down the middle. Our group are seen as the nerdy group and the other half of the class are the cool kids. Couple of my friends have anxiety and this is getting to them alot more than myself, to the point that they sometimes have to leave lessons. But it does wind me up also.
Lessons at uni are quite contributory, you are supposed to speak up and answer and join in. When we open our mouths we get snide comments, sniggering, and personal things said about us.
Now some of my friends are joining in less which I don't like to see. Then we get comments from the cool kids such as 'theyre all so quiet, never answering anything, waste of space' etc.
I feel like turning round (they sit at the back being the cool kids and all that) and just saying to them what are you hoping to achieve with these comments. Personally I think it's pathetic, we are all even in that classroom, there to learn and gain knowledge from each other as well as the tutor.
Tutors are aware, nothing is being done from their side. I would like to do something to help my friends and myself feel more comfortable in class. But being incredibly shy and awkward I find standing up for us difficult.
Any advice?
I was bullied pretty badly as a kid and all through school and think I still wear the mental scars really. What we are going through at uni isn't that bad really but it takes it toll over time.
I've made a nice little group of friends who I'm very grateful for but the class is very much split down the middle. Our group are seen as the nerdy group and the other half of the class are the cool kids. Couple of my friends have anxiety and this is getting to them alot more than myself, to the point that they sometimes have to leave lessons. But it does wind me up also.
Lessons at uni are quite contributory, you are supposed to speak up and answer and join in. When we open our mouths we get snide comments, sniggering, and personal things said about us.
Now some of my friends are joining in less which I don't like to see. Then we get comments from the cool kids such as 'theyre all so quiet, never answering anything, waste of space' etc.
I feel like turning round (they sit at the back being the cool kids and all that) and just saying to them what are you hoping to achieve with these comments. Personally I think it's pathetic, we are all even in that classroom, there to learn and gain knowledge from each other as well as the tutor.
Tutors are aware, nothing is being done from their side. I would like to do something to help my friends and myself feel more comfortable in class. But being incredibly shy and awkward I find standing up for us difficult.
Any advice?