Maz, my ambitions towards the grand national are non existent! I might ride around the course and scramble over the fences with an Icelandic as they woulnd't jump they'd climb and scramble! As for pointing a fully fit 100% keen 16-17hh TB at those fences, letting him go....and sitting on his back while he did it! NOPE! You are welcome to that one!
I was, in my youth a reasonable rider, I could stick on most things and never get scared. I did 100 mile endurance rides in a day, and lots of 25 and 50 mile ones. Great sport, great way of seeing the country and you don't have to be a fantastic rider, just care about the horse under you.
I now do more carriage driving than riding, I enjoy it, it's fun and the ponies love it.
We had a bit of a seminar at our indoor school on Sunday, Esther.D's Mum gave us a talk on Physiotherapy and posture and how it affects the horse and vice versa (she was an RDA physio) There were some really very good riders there, all young kids, with some very flashy horses, all kitted out, all clipped and rugged and shiny......then there was me, in my jeans, with my unclipped, living out, 5 gaited horses that couldn't even trot. Scruffy, hairry and grubby!
I don't care any longer whether folk judge me, that is their affair, I do what I do, My horses are happy, I am happy and that's all that matters.
Later I was bullied into riding one of the posh nags, on my 3rd circuit in canter he did a bit of a buck and I lost my stirrups and nearly fell off!.........didn't matter, just enjoy it and let others critisize if they will smille and nod and just enjoy yourself!