Hi!
I share a horse (my first ever sharing and caring for a horse outside of a riding school) and he will not listen to me at all. I am never alone with him, as the owner and other people/liveries are usually at the yard but the owner is the definite herd leader. I feel so disheartened because the horse just isn't listening to me and I'm trying hard to be assertive and gain respect but feel like I'm failing, although he will listen to his owner as quick as anything and other people over me. The horse definitely tests me when I'm riding him (which is great experience for me but makes me feel a little disheartened and we're not getting anywhere) but on the ground he doesn't bat an eyelid to what I do, almost like he purposefully ignores me when I ask him do to something. I have a feeling he's already figured out what I'm going to be like and doesn't even bother with me. I'm starting to feel nervous around him and it's really damaging my confidence (he's a big lad). Does anyone have any tips to make him listen?
I share a horse (my first ever sharing and caring for a horse outside of a riding school) and he will not listen to me at all. I am never alone with him, as the owner and other people/liveries are usually at the yard but the owner is the definite herd leader. I feel so disheartened because the horse just isn't listening to me and I'm trying hard to be assertive and gain respect but feel like I'm failing, although he will listen to his owner as quick as anything and other people over me. The horse definitely tests me when I'm riding him (which is great experience for me but makes me feel a little disheartened and we're not getting anywhere) but on the ground he doesn't bat an eyelid to what I do, almost like he purposefully ignores me when I ask him do to something. I have a feeling he's already figured out what I'm going to be like and doesn't even bother with me. I'm starting to feel nervous around him and it's really damaging my confidence (he's a big lad). Does anyone have any tips to make him listen?