In my riding lesson this week I rode a new horse. He is a 16hh TB who I had never met before. I led him out of his stable and down to the school, but after every couple of strides he kept planting himself with his head in the air. I wasn't really sure what to do so I kept at his shoulder asking him to walk on which he would do for a few strides and then stop again. Another (know it all) rider tried to give me a whip and said to give him a smack. I refused because I had only met this horse 2 minutes ago and didn't think that it was appropriate to start getting heavy handed, particuarly when I hadn't had a chance to think about what was going on.
We finally got to the school and to the mountain block in a series of short steps with pauses of planting with his head in the air again. He was fantastic to ride, but I had the same problem leading him back to his stable. He didn't want to move out of the school and I couldn't get him to walk into the stable - someone who was very assertive and confident did this for me (not the rider who wanted me to smack him).
So what was going on? Why was he behaving like this and how would you have have dealt with it? I'm not as assertive as I would like to be with horses I don't know, but I'm not a total pushover either. Is this a classic case of the rider (me) not being in charge or was something else going on?
We finally got to the school and to the mountain block in a series of short steps with pauses of planting with his head in the air again. He was fantastic to ride, but I had the same problem leading him back to his stable. He didn't want to move out of the school and I couldn't get him to walk into the stable - someone who was very assertive and confident did this for me (not the rider who wanted me to smack him).
So what was going on? Why was he behaving like this and how would you have have dealt with it? I'm not as assertive as I would like to be with horses I don't know, but I'm not a total pushover either. Is this a classic case of the rider (me) not being in charge or was something else going on?