moody mare -- times 2?!

neen

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The RS horse I've been riding for the last few weeks, the very beautiful Pip, is notoriously moody -- my RI calls her "the queen of PMT". She's actually very sweet and lovely to ride, as long as you're gentle with her, but she pulls some, um, *interesting* faces at times.

I'm generally very relaxed on her, which she seems to appreciate, and I love the fact that a tiny shift in my seat is enough to turn her, and that she'll stop with just a gentle exhale from me and no pressure on the reins. But this week, she just wasn't having it, and we had 45 minutes of bunching up and general rushing about. I rode without stirrups and concentrated on slowing and relaxing her (and myself!), to mixed effect!

It made for an interesting lesson. Afterwards RI and I speculated unsuccessfully on what had brought on this mood of Pip's, but it wasn't till I was on my way home that it occurred to me that I actually had a bit of PMT myself! :o Happily PMT doesn't make me lay my ears back and pull faces (OH might disagree) but I do associate it with a certain "fizzy" feeling in my limbs -- which may well manifest itself as physical tension.

So I wondered if Pip, with her super-sensors, may have picked up on my PMT (or on the tension it produced in my body), and responded negatively to that? Has anyone else had experience of horses reacting to their rider's hormonal state? I'm not sure what the implications are -- maybe I'll have to keep certain horses for certain times of the month! :rolleyes:

I'd love to hear your views.
 
Golly, don't I know what you mean about the face pulling and ear laying back!!!:p My mare is famous on our block for her face pulling ability - indeed she has taught the mare next door to her to do the same!!! ha ha. If anything, when its "my time of the month" and I'm feeling moody / sensitive she seems quite receptive to this and goes gently with me:D But, perhaps thats because I don't ask as much of her - knowing that I'm not feeling 100 per cent. I try hard not to be sharp with her if I'm moody side out - and we rub along together ok. I swear they all have a 6th sense though, and can gauge our moods - mare or not!!!!:D
 
I'm sure there is something in that - I find mares especially are so sensitive to moods and feelings.

I'm also a member of the mare-with-interesting-face-pulling-abilities club. Molly can gurn for England - her favourite targets are any gelding that happens to come in to the school or my Riding Instructor!! She looks like she's been sucking lemons (horse not the RI!!:p ). And when she's feeling particularly hormonal, she will wink with one end, whilst pulling faces with the other - talk about confused!!
 
Interesting, had a lesson yesterday, my mare's tail was being held a little high and I could'nt keep her mind on our work. She looked like she was star gazing. It was daylight out, no stars in sight. Or stallions either thank goodness. It wasn't until the lesson was over the trainer stated she though it was that time of the month. My mare ususally has no signs, she's a little sirely all the time. I also have a gelding and she never bothers with him. I have seen some mare put their tails in geldings faces, but not mine
 
This is why I got myself a gelding, it's enough with a hormonal wife and two daughters without haveing a hormonal pony as well ;)
 
I'm glad to hear there are other moody face-pullers out there.

I must admit, I was a bit alarmed by the face-pulling at first, but I soon worked out that nobody else was paying it any attention. So now I don't worry about leading a horse that looks like it's possessed. We can't all be beautiful all the time -- and she's stunning when she wants to be. Of course, once I'm on her I can't really see if she's pulling faces or not!
 
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