My Story

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This is long, so get yourself a cup of tea/coffe and a biscuit/sandwich....

Up until 23/2/1993 I was as able-bodied as the next person. enjoying my job, working with horses in a riding school.

I was meant to be doing the horses for the night classes, but at the end of the wroking day, before the start of the Evening, I was riding an ex-polo pony... we were in canter, and being a bit lazy, I asked him to lengthen his stride, but had forgotten about him being ex-polo...he shot off up the long side of the indoor school, and on going round the corner, he fell....somersaulted, and landed on top of me, upside down.... i think we were both knocked out...don't really remember.... Anyway got carted off to hospital in a car (owner was too mean to call an ambulance, and failed to believe i was in any pain....)

When in hospital it was revealed that I had broken my Acetabulum (lining of the hip cup/pelvis) blah blah blah...was in hospital for a month, had surgery to fix metal work inside to hold it together, and was told that I'd never ride again.

For a year, I couldnt.. I was on crutches for about 4 months, I had infections, for two months i was infection free, then I started having a really weird pain...it would be really intense for a couple days (real go-to-bed-with-painkillers pain) then after a couple days it would subside... Iconsulted my GP/consultant and A/E about, and they all said everything was fine.... This went on for 3 weeks, until it was so bad, that my physio arranged for a home visit from my GP, for the next morning... she phoned for an ambulance, and b/c I'd been there before, they got intouch with my consultant, who basically ignored me and left me in A/E for hours, until one of his registrars appeared and said I needed an intense course of physio, and that I was being transfered to another hospital.... :rolleyes: the other hospital couldnt take me that day, so was admitted to a ward... (this is where the fun begins..) I was given a blood test, which results said i had a really aggressive infection, the plan for tranferring was abandoned while they carried out test/xrays/scans..even made me radioactive for one particular scan - even that was inconclusive.... in the end, 10 days after admittance, they operated and found the biggest abcess ever, ready to burst and cause Peritonitis.... unfortunetly, yes they'd found it, but the damage was done, by the time i left hospital my leg had already shortend by half an inch... It had caused a condition called AVASUCALR NECROSIS - which is a bone disease, and causes the bone to die and crumble away. For the next few years I was 2and a half - 3inches shorter on my right leg....

I got on a horse again the following December after the accident, but only in walk for 30mins... Just because I had to.....

A year after the accident, in the March I started going to a "rival" school to ride again...couldnt face going to the yard where I worked, to have people asking questions...

At first I could only ride narrow horses, as my hips were so tight... getting on was a problem in itself, as i couldnt stretch, and I also had to re-learn how to ride, and figure out what my hip in it's current state would be like..... I literally joined an adults beginner class.... Later that year I developed another abcess, which was dealt with more effeciantly.. and I was back on a horse within two months of surgery!

I rode at the riding school for about 3years, I helped out on occassions, and had private lessons, even rode a horse the instructor didnt think I should, as she hadhistory of throwing her riders into the gallery...and yes, I admit i was a bit concerned, but she was a total babe, and behaved herself... I rode her 3 times and then she was sold.... I dont know why she behaved with me, but she made me ride properly and have her focused on what she was meant to be doing.... perhaps she made me believe in myself....

After then, I started riding a friends horse at the yard I'm at now, I think it was time for me to move on, from Riding school horses to privately owned... Mick was a 16hh IDX and I had known him from when he came onto the yard I'd previously worked at, my freind had bought him as a second horse for her son, but with him being at school, there were days he couldnt ride, and Mick needed the work... we had some fun.... he was a great lad...

By this time, my hip had stabled and I walked with a stick...

I rode Mick for 3years and then the old pony died, so my friend said she wanted to start riding Mick, that was fine, as I had too moved on to another horse in the yard... Mick had given me lots of confidence, but I felt I needed something with bit more oomph, and so started riding a horse who shall be known on here as The Oldie... He was 20 when I first started riding him... 15.2hh and fat!!! The first few times I rode him, I wondered what I'd taken on...imagine... you're in a stubble feild, and you cant get the bloody horse out of a walk, or barely into a poor trot.... didnt want to use a stick, as didnt know what he was like..... (it's always in the back of my mind that if i should fall off agian, my hip would shatter....) anyway over the next few weeks we got to know each other and now, 10 years on, I would trust him with my life... He turns 30 this year, and is in great health.

I realise I have probably left a lot of information out, but 14years is a lot to remember.......

I had the metal work removed after 8 years.....and had a total hip replacement last Nov.... couldnt ride for 3 months...when i did the difference was fantastic...unfortunelty 2months ago I fell and shattered the femur bone in which the implant is in, so am once again out of the saddle.... and it's boring as hell!!!!

Any questions, please ask......

Dont tell me you feel sorry for me, nor pity me... Im alive, and can still (and I will again) ride my beloved horses!

This is me on the Oldie last Feb...first time back on a horse after surgery

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and on a friends horse a few weeks later

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Thank you so much for posting your story. You write very well btw and I'm going to enjoy reading any posts you make:D

I do like to hear of peoples stories as it provides a context on the road travelled to their current views and beliefs.
 
What a terrific story :D, and a massive Good For You! :D
My best friend badly broke her arm last year when her normally placid cob bucked with her on the lunge. After several months she got back on, but had another freak riding accident earlier this year and pretty much destroyed her collarbone. Obviously, it ruined her confidence, but she seemed so keen to keep her horse and to ride again. She went for a check up a couple of months back, and the consultant laughed at her when she asked about her chances of riding again. As a result, she has sold her fantastic horse, and I barely see her anymore. We're both working full time again after long-term sickness absence, so we're both tired in the evenings, and she likes to see her OH at weekends, and it has to fit in around my horse.... which has been very strange after spending every evening and weekend with her seeing to our horses together.

I think your story is an inspiration to people in your situation. You CAN ride again, if you have the sheer determination and guts to listen to the advice of medical professionals and take their advice on board, but ultimately make your own decision :).
 
Sez- the thing is if people who are so severley disabled can ride, why not your friend? a broken even nearly destroyed collar bone shouldnt have stopped her.....there is always a way round everything...

A lady i used to take out at the riding school where i worked was very disabled, had a crooked back, used two sticks to walk, couldnt even hold herself up, yet she owned one of the ponies at the school.... she used to fall off everytime she cantered.... and trying to get her back on was a feat in itself, lol!!!!a bit hard when it takes 3 people to get her on and the YO would send you out alone!!!

As for the medical profession...well i can see where they are coming from, but on the other hand...who knows horse better? us or them?
 
Thank you so much for posting your story.
I too have been having some intense pain..and I am going to ask one of the non caring Docs I have about AVASUCALR NECROSIS. I have brittle bones anyway....
The one keeps telling me I should not be in any pain after 3 months and it is a little over 6 months now. But is tiring I can't get the two Doc's to listen. If I was a man I would not be going through this. Sigh ~~
Top that off all I have is military health insurance and so far I could only find 2 Docs in my area that will even take it.
I know I would be farther along if I had proper Doc care, by a Doc that 1st..cared and 2nd,, knew what they were doing.


I still have to use the walker to walk with..while there is some improvement to a point.. I can't get past that point..I keep pushing myself..but doesn't seem to do any good.

Am glad you are still trying to ride... I am too.
Now that I got the saddle issue dealt with am hoping I can ride more than 10 minutes every couple of weeks.
 
Julz--
Thank you so much for posting your story. I think you and the Oldie and your friend's horse look great together.
Your story certainly is an inspiration to me, to keep on trying with my guy and to work on trusting him when I'm on his back as I much as I do on the ground. We are so comfortable on the ground together and are getting to know each other so well, and we're getting to know each other when I ride, too, it's just harder for us both because it's harder for me (which makes it harder for him).
I hope it will not be long before your femur bone is mended and you can ride again.
 
Mmmmmmmmmmmm?

Are you brave?

Or, are you mad???

:D:D:D:D:D:D

I'm not sure!

Thanks for sharing your story. It has come at the right time as one of my ex livery riding buddies' horse reared and fell on her last saturday crushing her pelvis - 4 clean fractures and a fractured hip.

Your story will be a motivator for her.

God bless your Oldie!
 
This is my xray from 2000 (i think) the year before I had the metal work out...

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As you can see the Femur head has totally gone....by the time I had it rplaced all the angled bit had gone too......
 
Blimey, look at your x-ray :eek: :eek:.

I think my friend's problem is that her consultant scared her. He basically said that she has a weakness on both sides of her upper body (i.e. shoulder and arm pinned together and smashed collarbone), and if she came off again, she would break her neck and end up in a wheelchair. He made it sound like a certainty :rolleyes: rather than a risk. I suppose she felt that the risk just wasn't worth taking. I have a physical disability, and riding is one of the few forms of exercise I can manage. My doctors have said on occasion that I shouldn't ride, as I'm risking a serious injury if I fall off, but personally I think the risk is worth it. I've been told that my condition is likely to get worse as I get older anyway, so the way I see it, I'd rather enjoy my life while I can.
 
Have been out the saddle since april 29th this year.... Possibly will be back in it come Christmas... would like it to be before then, but considering the break, that's not likely!

I still go up to the yard roughly twice a week, and do things i shouldnt be doing...filling nets, poo-picking the feild...etc...
 
No kidding.. Major ouch!! Is good to hear you are like the rest of us. Still trying to ride! I think it gives us something to focus on..to strive for.
You are an inspiration to me.
 
Thanks for posting your story, was a very interesting and inspiring read. I wish you all the best in recovering from your last fall and hope you're back in the saddle by Christmas. You must have amazing confidence, I'd have trouble getting back on a horse after the first accident, but to be so focussed on riding again after a second bad fall is inspiring!
 
You must have amazing confidence, I'd have trouble getting back on a horse after the first accident,

Im not as thick-skinned as people assume..I lost my confidence in a big way when I was 10... I started riding at 7, and was having private lessons for 30min each week...one week, i went there my usual pony was lame, (14.2hh, black pony called Adventure - she was great..) they put me on this 15.2hh live wire, took me 20mins to get on this thing, that kept spinning round (didnt have any bounce when i was a kid..) when I did get on, it took off, out the school, round the jumping paddock, and dumped me at a jump.... it took me two years to get back on... I always still loved them. When I went to high school they had a riding club, they only went for 6 weeks, I forgot about it, and so missed a week, but after that i got my confidence back, and carried on going every week thereafter..

So, I do understand where confidence issues come from, and they can be beaten....just easier for a kid to beat them than for an adult, as the conception idea is stronger in adults... We KNOW what could happen should the worst happen... a kid doesnt care...

Also I do have a lack of confidence at times, but I just get on with it and do it...it's never as bad as i think!!
 
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