My Thyme

You've just said everything I'm trying to achieve with Joy. I respect her and her quirks and she knows it. Our is a true partnership which mostly improves until I stop listening to her.

Isn't it wonderful when you have a horse of a lifetime and they know thats how you feel. With Joy, that does have to be tempered with her still realising that I am the boss when I do need to insist. Just like with my daughter really!
 
My (RWYM) RI doesn't say very much. She asks me what I want to get out of the lesson, makes observations, asks me a LOT of questions ("where is your weight now? What is your back doing? What is his back doing? What did you do just then, whatever it was, it worked!") and leaves a lot of silences while I work on her suggestions.

I agree that other RIs I have had have tended to talk a lot. I find the difference refreshing.

T&me, could you post the link to that Wanless/Moffett/Loch workshop? I'd love to watch it. I find the Heather Moffett stuff very interesting and useful too.
 
Canter-Thyme

Woop Woop :dance::skip:

What a great ride today turned out to be....

I went up with the sole intention of trying out my new Rockin S Snaffle
http://www.markrashid.com/forsale_bit.html

Then when I got into the arena I saw the mounting block and thought 'I'll teach Thyme to stand alongside that'. I had got her stood still next to it last week when I wanted to ride bareback but it was not a well-taught or well-learnt lesson so today she swung out again. I tried to tell her what I was after and she got pretty frustrated by it immediately - probably because I taught her in such a rushed & confused way in the first place. "I'll teach her properly this time" I thought. BUT my plan was to test the new bit. So I was in a hurry and was feeling impatient with her frustration.......

A few seconds after launching into this impulsive lesson a snippet from Kathleen Lindlay came to me....

"I would go into the arena thinking I'd work on rhythm. Then I'd notice the horse cutting the corner so I'd work on that. Then I'd see there was a brace so I'd work on softness. Then I'd get the brace in transitions so I'd work on those... After a while neither me nor my horse would know WHAT we were working on..." I am VERY familiar with this type of approach!

So I abandoned the mounting block idea. After all, I have only just got Thyme standing for mounting anyway (which she still is :angel:) and I hopped on. She seemed pretty unsure of it at first. She was not softening to it when I picked up a contact. Instead she started offering lots of responses and showing frustration. Going back, turning, head tossing, stamping, snorting, pawing......

It came to me that my reaction to all that - in fact my view of it - has changed since the Mark Rashid clinic. I saw the behaviour as 'offering responses' and then getting frustrated because she did not know what to do, and it is natural to feel frustrated when we are unsure. So my response was to sit very still and maintain the light contact which was basically saying "I want something" and to ignore all the incorrect 'answers' she was offering to me which was telling her "no that's not what I want". Eventually we got the light bulb click of Thyme flexing her jaw and poll, while staying still and holding the bit calmly in her mouth. Hurray. She went quite nicely in the bit after that.

I realised afterwards that in the past I would have started trying to correct each of her responses: correcting going back with some leg, going forward with some rein, pawing, stamping with some random 'no' signal that would almost certainly be meaningless! So we would have ended up both offering each other loads of 'noise' and activity and would not have had any idea of what each other was saying :tongue: It's a miracle my lovely Charlie ever managed to decode my wishes.....

Anyway, Thyme went so well in the bit that I decided to take her out of the arena into a larger sloping field for our first canter. She was fab. I walked and trotted round it both ways to get her used to unfamiliar sights/smells etc. She was very starey at first but soon chilled out. Then I set off in a diagonal line across the field slighly uphill in trot, clicked for canter and she just popped up easily :dance:

Came back to trot nicely when asked. Did that a couple more times, this time combining the click with a canter aid behind the girth. She cantered easily each time, bless her. Even managed to canter round a corner! She was unbalanced as you'd expect but for a first go I am delighted with her :cloud9::angel: My baby girl can CANTER :running:
 
Sounds fab T&M, congratulations.

Your post reminded me of a quote on Perry Woods website;

My first Portuguese riding master spoke very little English, and all he would say is " Sit well, do nothing, and the horse do." For a long time I thought he just said that because it was the only thing he could say; then I realised it was pretty much all he needed to say!

:biggrin:
 
My first Portuguese riding master spoke very little English, and all he would say is " Sit well, do nothing, and the horse do." For a long time I thought he just said that because it was the only thing he could say; then I realised it was pretty much all he needed to say!

:biggrin:

Love it! That's brilliant. :tongue:
 
I'm certainly finding that less is more.... The less I interfere the easier things seem to go. :playfull:
The canter was surprisingly straight forward. I had assumed we would have a few fast-trot-falling-into-ugly-canter experiences! Or teach her by going out with another horse and getting a lead. But it was unplanned and I really didn;t think about it much. I just turned her up the hill, focused on canter, sat and clicked and she was away! It seemed so natural at the time that she would just do it. It's only now that I'm thinking "how did she know what to do..." Clever Thyme. :inlove:
 
Another first today...Our first canter in the Big Wide World Out There..... And on our own too! :dance:

I was hoping to hack out with someone else but no-one was around, the sun was shining and so we just hacked out on our own. Which, thinking about it, is probably only the second time we have done that. She makes me feel so safe.

I'm still remembering GRATITUDE NOT FEAR and she hasn't put a hoof wrong yet. She does still stop/look/stare at lots of things, but she never goes anywhere. Just stands stock still, very alert, ears flicking. Checking it all out. Never makes me feel like she'll run off. Honestly, for all that she's still only 3, she is just so reliable. :wub:
 
That is just brilliant - I do try and keep that in mind - gratitude not fear - I think there is a lot in it.
 
I've been holding back for quite a while now but geesh: will we ever see updated pics of you guys again???
 
I've been holding back for quite a while now but geesh: will we ever see updated pics of you guys again???

Well since you asked..... :mstickle:

Pretty Girl


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Needs a lot more muscle..... BUt we'll get there.


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I'm EATING, mum.......


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What's over there???


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I'm going on a trail riding holiday tomorrow. It will be a pic-fest!
 
Holiday-Thyme

Well we started with loading drama...... But the holiday got better after that!

Day 1: Rode her in the arena, then around the farm ride on our own. Then went for a hack for an hour along a road with another horse. She saw lots of cars, trucks etc and was fine.

Today I rode for 2 hours in the pouring rain up and down steep tracks and on the moor. She was amzaing. Unsure of cows but coped ok with them. Unsure when we came to the first water crossing but was totally fine after that. What a star.

Going out for a fast hack tomorrow - cantering on the moors! Can't wait!

Here are some pics.


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And pics of the bit Jane & Ziggy were asking about:


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It's a sweetiron snaffle with a floating D-ring which stabilises the bit in the mouth and is therefore more comfortable/forgiving.

And a vid of Thyme in her field. Happy for company!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S3QaC-7TtQ&feature=youtu.be
 
Final day... Took her into a jumping paddock and had our first few jumps :skip:

She was fine with them. Didn't even hesitate - just popped over and gave a few exuberant bucks afterwards. Ears were pricked and she seemed happy enough. Jumped 5 little fences then left it at that.
She can now have a few days off. And so can I. I'm KNACKERED!
 
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