I have a tendency to be long winded, so I apologize in advance!
I am a relatively new rider— was always a horse obsessed kid who took any chance I could get to be around horses, but ultimately never had much time in the saddle, and never once had a formal lesson until last year. I had about 4 lessons last year but had to discontinue for various reasons, and now at 22 have found an amazing opportunity at a barn with a very accomplished dressage rider who gives me lessons in exchange for barn chores. I could not be happier as I’m finally able to live out my childhood dream for the first time, but could use some advice!
I’ve only had about 5 lessons (1 a week) at this new place, and have loved every second of it, even at the inevitably frustrating times. I’m confidently posting the trot around the arena, picking up on the correct diagonal, and overall having a blast. Keeping close on the track around corners could use some work, but hey we’ll get there lol! My instructor hasn’t suggested cantering yet, and I suspect it may be a couple more months off at the least, but nonetheless I am incredibly eager. I have 0 fear when it comes to riding, BUT I have a little reservation that’s come up... here’s the deal— my husband rides very well as he’s taken lessons for years, and told me I’ll have to learn to sit the trot before I can canter. When I took casual lessons last year I was actually a bit put off due to the (other) instructor’s horse. He was older, short, and a true lazy lesson pony. It was not only incredibly difficult to get him going at all, but man was his trot the most jarring thing I’d ever experienced. After 4 lessons I still couldn’t even post it, and the RI had me try to sit it, which was even worse. I felt like a sack of potatoes. To be fair, even the RI did warn me that her horse has a harsh trot. So I was very pleasantly surprised to be able to pick up a fairly decent posting trot from the very first lesson on this new horse. He’s a 17hh Warmblood, and I feel that the bigger strides make posting incredibly easy and natural for me. Part of what’s made me want to canter so badly these days is that I LOVE the feeling of just absolutely flying around at a big, strong trot. I’ve been feeling the strong, euphoric desire to go faster! And here comes the BUT part— due to my experience with the other RI’s horse I’m apprehensive about learning to sit the trot. I feel as if I’ll go rigid and unbalanced and fail, as I did in my previous experience. I know going into it tense will cause problems and probably be a self-fulfilling prophesy type of issue, but I can’t help it! The idea of feeling incapable and humiliated again just puts me on edge. So, down to the bare bones of my question: how do I get over the apprehension, and what is some solid advice on how to actually perform the sitting trot when the time comes? My RI is great and I’m sure she’ll give me good instruction, but I’m also looking for more advice and tips just to ease my mind and make me feel a little better prepared! And I’m sure hearing many different takes on it will give me more to go off of than just what my instructor says. Thank you!
I am a relatively new rider— was always a horse obsessed kid who took any chance I could get to be around horses, but ultimately never had much time in the saddle, and never once had a formal lesson until last year. I had about 4 lessons last year but had to discontinue for various reasons, and now at 22 have found an amazing opportunity at a barn with a very accomplished dressage rider who gives me lessons in exchange for barn chores. I could not be happier as I’m finally able to live out my childhood dream for the first time, but could use some advice!
I’ve only had about 5 lessons (1 a week) at this new place, and have loved every second of it, even at the inevitably frustrating times. I’m confidently posting the trot around the arena, picking up on the correct diagonal, and overall having a blast. Keeping close on the track around corners could use some work, but hey we’ll get there lol! My instructor hasn’t suggested cantering yet, and I suspect it may be a couple more months off at the least, but nonetheless I am incredibly eager. I have 0 fear when it comes to riding, BUT I have a little reservation that’s come up... here’s the deal— my husband rides very well as he’s taken lessons for years, and told me I’ll have to learn to sit the trot before I can canter. When I took casual lessons last year I was actually a bit put off due to the (other) instructor’s horse. He was older, short, and a true lazy lesson pony. It was not only incredibly difficult to get him going at all, but man was his trot the most jarring thing I’d ever experienced. After 4 lessons I still couldn’t even post it, and the RI had me try to sit it, which was even worse. I felt like a sack of potatoes. To be fair, even the RI did warn me that her horse has a harsh trot. So I was very pleasantly surprised to be able to pick up a fairly decent posting trot from the very first lesson on this new horse. He’s a 17hh Warmblood, and I feel that the bigger strides make posting incredibly easy and natural for me. Part of what’s made me want to canter so badly these days is that I LOVE the feeling of just absolutely flying around at a big, strong trot. I’ve been feeling the strong, euphoric desire to go faster! And here comes the BUT part— due to my experience with the other RI’s horse I’m apprehensive about learning to sit the trot. I feel as if I’ll go rigid and unbalanced and fail, as I did in my previous experience. I know going into it tense will cause problems and probably be a self-fulfilling prophesy type of issue, but I can’t help it! The idea of feeling incapable and humiliated again just puts me on edge. So, down to the bare bones of my question: how do I get over the apprehension, and what is some solid advice on how to actually perform the sitting trot when the time comes? My RI is great and I’m sure she’ll give me good instruction, but I’m also looking for more advice and tips just to ease my mind and make me feel a little better prepared! And I’m sure hearing many different takes on it will give me more to go off of than just what my instructor says. Thank you!