Realising a Childhood Dream: Riding and Horses Blog

I used to practice light seat when I was working on the computer. Sitting down, I would just lift my bum, keeping knees bent, and ease off the seat. Hold as long as poss. I can only hold it for a few minutes these days, alas, but that's injuries for you.

My first pony was a Connie like Kris - is Kris grey? My pony Ziggy could jump like a stag. He had been produced as a show jumper but traumatised somehow, he would bolt if you showed him a coloured pole, so I never jumped on him. You are better at jumping than me now! Sid my cob loves to jump and is smooth as silk but he gets quite excited so we keep them small...
Great tip, thank you! I mentioned it to my instructor last week - she liked it too.

There are actually two Connemaras there. Herbie is grey, but Kris is bay. A very handsome bay! They're both absolutely gorgeous. Kris used to do cross country, so no matter how bad my set up is or how colourful a jump is, he'll try to jump and will usually succeed, bless him! He can go from lazy to seemingly looking for other things to spook at, though! I'm told the other Connemara there, Herbie, has days when he overjumps a lot, but I haven't jumped him yet, thankfully - don't think I'm there yet!
 
Do you ride a bike? You can practice 2 point (light seat) on a bike, particularly when going downhill as you'll be less inclined to put your weight too far forward and collapse at the hip. Also kneeling or all-fours on a gym ball is a great way to strengthen your core and develop your balance to make 2 point easier.
Thanks - great tips! I don't have a bike at the moment, although I'm considering getting one again, so will keep that in mind if I do! I have an exercise ball, so can get started with that tip straight away! Thanks again - I think that will really help with my core and balance, as you say. :)
 
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Stand on the floor with your feet apart and your knees bent at a similar sort of angle as you'd have them riding and your hands in front of you, essentially you're on an invisible horse. Now take your light forward seat position and hold. Notice how your hips/bum have to go back in order for you to maintain your balance and not step forward? That's what you're looking for when you ride.
Thanks for the tip - I'll certainly try that! I did that while looking in the mirror to teach myself to stop hollowing my back before, and it helped then.
 
I've fallen behind! Oh no!

Group lesson Friday 25th July 2025:

My instructor told me we were jumping and I was given the choice between Kris and Beauty. As I'd only had Beauty for a lesson right at the beginning of my time at this riding school for jumping and almost fell off that day, and had had Kris almost every time since (plus Tonto once), I chose Beauty to give myself a challenge. Beauty is bigger than Kris and bouncier. Challenging myself to jump her again paid off - I could really see how much progress I've made since October! My friend took a video of me. I'm actually relaxing and going with the movement rather than being left behind, losing stirrups, falling back into trot when I should be cantering, etc. It felt amazing and I was on such a high for the rest of the week - still am, actually! I have a friend who used to do eventing at a high level when she was younger. I've been sharing my videos with her and she told me she could also really see an improvement in my jumping and said I was doing very well. High praise!


Hack Friday 25th July 2025:

I started off on Glen but was asked to swap to Duke as the person assigned to Glen wanted a change. Duke and I ended up in front of the ride for most of it. He's a good boy, but doesn't like being in front! Well, he'll be fine...until he decides no, it's too scary, and suddenly stops and refuses to go forward. With some persuasion, he's usually absolutely fine again, but anyone got any tips for this? Would you just let another horse/pony go in front and then bring him back in front again if instructed to (I was instructed to go back in front)?


Group lesson Friday 1st August 2025:

I was given Kris again. We weren't jumping, but did pole work, including poles arranged in a curve shape (sorry - not sure how else to explain it! They formed a curve rather than being laid straight out). It was interesting, as we had four completely different horses/ponies in the arena: Kris, who can be forward and fast or lazy and slow (it just depends on the day/his mood!) and confident or spooky; Herbie, the other Connemara, who is generally slow and stops and starts a lot until he gets to canter, when he's forward, fast and smooth; Fern, an older mare who moves beautifully and is very forward, like a much younger horse, but who gets extremely excited and rushes anything even remotely related to jumps, including poles and Paddy, a new recruit to the stables who is young (4) and still rather underconfident/getting used to new things all the time (like wooden poles).

Kris was in a Kris mood, going from slow and behind the leg in our warm up and during parts of our pole work to rushing things and spooking at various things outside the arena. It was my best day or his, performance-wise, but we did our best! As my instructor always says, "There were lovely moments", haha. We had some attempts where he just hit all the poles but others where he went through them almost perfectly and kept in his trot with a good, steady rhythm. Unfortunately, my instructor was looking away the time it felt almost perfect!

Does anyone else have any experience of horses/ponies who can change their way of going at the drop of a hat? I'm used to Kris never quite being the same two days in a row, but he's never spooked that much with me before, nor has he switched from behind the leg to forward and rushing that many times in the space of an hour before. Has anyone got any tips to keep him listening and steadier from beginning to end? I had no problem getting him to canter when he was supposed to, and he did very well listening to me when Fern got excited and started to canter and he had clearly wanted to follow but didn't, so that was great. Keeping a good rhythm in the trot and getting him to keep going rather than find spooky things at the side of the arena/corners was another matter entirely, though!

I've been advised in warm up to get him trotting as soon as possible and to focus on things like transitions, which works well. Anything else any of you would try? Thanks in advance!


Hack Friday 1st August 2025:

I had Harvey, one of my favourite piebald cobs! He's such a sweetheart! He was having a bit of a tired day, but we still had some lovely canters - although he was falling out of the canter at times, he did go back into it when I asked him to and tried his hardest, as always. I really believe that - he's a very good boy and I love riding him!


Agricultural show Saturday 2nd August 2025:

I didn't ride in it, BUT I got to fuss over and groom a therapy pony for over an hour and watch so many gorgeous horses and ponies (and one very cute miniature donkey - the donkeys had been in a different ring and I only found them when one brayed at the end!) and wonderful horse/human partnerships working beautifully together.

Getting to pamper wee Violet, a Shetland, was the highlight of my day/probably my week. I found the spots she needed itched immediately and she showed her appreciation to the fullest and most adorable extent - her lower lip went droopy, she opened her mouth slightly and she twisted her neck so I could give her the best scratches possible. SO cute and lovable! She was like that for the best part of an hour, haha. I don't know if I've ever felt more appreciated! Sweet, sweet girl. I also managed to give her a good groom - my hands went from being covered in that black grease you always get when stroking your average horse/pony to nothing coming off on them, so I consider it a win. Time well spent! She's definitely found her calling as a therapy pony - she's just got the best, calmest nature, contrary to the stereotypes I've heard (and now seen) about quite a lot of other Shetlands! I'm going to see if I might be able to volunteer with the organisation. They're quite a distance away from where I live, but if they'd take me as a one-off/few times rather than a regular...and one of my friends is interested as well.

Seeing so many stunning examples of our native breeds was fantastic too. The Shetlands and miniature Shetlands were (strategically?) shown in the ring right next to the ring with the gentle giant Clydesdales! The Highlands were a ring over - also just lovely! The foals...oh, my goodness! I'd never seen that many native foals before, especially Clydesdales. So tall, noble and strong already, and yet still with baby faces and gangly limbs!

It's a shame there wasn't a class for Eriskay ponies, but there probably just aren't enough of them. My friends keep sending me photos of them when they spot them on holiday and I am always very jealous - I've never seen one in person, only photos and videos! I'd love to, though. One day! There is apparently a breeder in my area who says visitors wishing to see typical Eriskays are welcome to come to them, so maybe I'll contact them! How cool would that be?

There were some in-hand classes, some ridden and one with driving. I rather fancy trying driving - do any of you do it/have you tried it? How different is there use of the reins to a rider's? I was trying to watch what they were doing but just don't know enough about it.

I really wanted to watch the sidesaddle class, but it must have been in the ring on the opposite site to where I was and, well, I couldn't drag myself away from the Clydesdale foals once I had started watching them! Have any of you ever tried sidesaddle? Would you like to? I can't imagine how people canter/gallop/jump like that and stay on, I really can't! I don't think I could even trot! I'd be lucky not to fall out the side door at the walk, probably...!

To quote my aunt, who was there with one of my cousins, his wife and their kids, when they found me with Violet, "Fiona is in her element!" Too right I was! I could have stayed there forever, I swear! Who needs sleep and food anyway, when there are beautiful horses and ponies to love and dote on? Such a fun day!
 
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Amazing, thanks! I’ll definitely have to get practising in the mirror! I spotted her leg swing back in the “what not to do” immediately. I suspect that’s exactly what I’m guilty of - that, and gripping with my knees when tense, probably.

I see she’s using one of those mechanical horses. I got to have a go on one briefly once, when I was a teen. Have you used them? I know some riding places have them and do lessons on them, but the prices! 😱
 
Group lesson Friday 8th August 2025:

I had Beauty and we were working on offset cavaletti. We had the choice between just sitting (but not deep in the saddle) or going up into our light seat throughout the exercise. I ended up trying both at the trot but just doing my normal seat and then light seat at the canter. I got her over the three cavaletti well twice, but my other attempts saw her do the smoothest, most graceful “Nope, you’ve set me up wrong!” run outs ever after the first one (my Italian tells me one would probably be a cavaletto, but is that what a Brit would say? Plural = cavaletti; British singular = ?!?)

Offset anything is still blowing my mind at the moment. I can make associations like “Oh, okay, so I want to aim for all the blue bits of the poles”, but in the long term, I need a better strategy than that - it won’t always be the multicoloured poles!

Any tips for offset jumps and finding a good line down them?

Hack Friday 8th August 2025:

I had Kris. It was rather windy and he was feeling the need for speed, as were the others! Had some glorious canters!
 
2 hour hack Saturday 9th August 2025:

A special treat, a longer hack! They’re hard to come by where I go (can only presume they make a lot more money out of the 1 hours, which are open to all experience levels).

It was great fun! I had Harvey, who is one of my absolute favourites - he’s not the fastest, but just tries his heart out at all times. A sweet, sweet cob. We also did one of my favourite routes through two of the neighbouring villages, including lots of open fields with stunning views and woodland by a river. The weather was just perfect as well - still warm and sunny, but not windy and nowhere near as suffocating as it has been on some other days.
 
Group lesson Friday 15th August 2025:

I had Duke and we did flatwork. I got to groom and tack him up before the lesson, which I always love when I get the chance (more often during termtime, as there are Own a Pony days most of my lesson days during school holidays - lucky kids! Still waiting for somewhere to offer something similar for adults!)

It was rather hot again, and the school is sand with no shade whatsoever, so it becomes a bit of a desert! Due to the heat, we stuck to walk and trot, though Duke was unusually forward - he’s really been feeling good these past couple of weeks! - and clearly fancied a canter! He was a good boy and listened to my aids, however.

We started off with a free warm up. As I previously had private lessons, I still find it a bit stressful to have to try to work out what other riders are planning to do in the warm up and avoid them accordingly.

We then worked on collecting and extending the walk and trot before moving on to practise 10 metre circles (at every letter down the long side of the arena again - so many circles!) and shoulder-in. Our focus was increasingly suppleness and straightness, particularly on circles.

A couple of questions, as “shoulder-in” was a new term to me before Friday! Am I right in thinking that “flexion” just refers to getting the horse to turn their head one way or the other, while keeping their body straight? And that walking in a straight line with flexion like that is “shoulder-in”, although flexion is used at other times, like for turn on the forehand and leg yielding? Thanks in advance!

Hack Friday 15th August 2025:

I had Tonto and he seemed to be struggling a bit in the heat. He started the canters very enthusiastically, but ended up dropping off before the end of them. I’ve never had him do that before. They were lovely while they lasted, though, and I kept him going while trotting, which I often used to struggle with.

Scone International Horse Trials August 2025:

Watch this space! I’m going to watch the horse trials with friends on Friday, Saturday and Sunday, and can’t wait! They’ve never been held at Scone Palace before, so it will be interesting. We went to its last year in Blair Atholl last year and it was brilliant!
 
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10 metre circles (at every letter down the long side of the arena again - so many circles!) and shoulder-in. Our focus was increasingly suppleness and straightness, particularly on circles.
The 10 metre circles get the horse bending ready for the shoulder in,
I too had to ride lots of shoulder in and no one explained it properly. These days you can Google it and watch some vids on your tube.
I think the idea is to keep the horse supple. Starting with the small circle makes it easier for a new rider. As you leave the small circle to ride down the next side of the school the horses head is bending to the inside and you allow the front legs to come slightly inside the outer track, but you use your inside leg to keep the horses hind legs on the outside track.
When one is first asked to do this and especially if coming out of a small circle, the tendency is to bend the neck and head of the horse too far in. You need very little bend. Our teacher used to say, Just a enough for the rider to see the horse's inside eye.

I used to make notes after my lessons - I hope this helps.
 
Hello all! So...life rather got in the way of me posting here, but you'll be glad to know that I'm still riding (lessons and hacks) and have also been able to start my Riding for the Disabled Association volunteer's green card training.

I will post a summary of everything I've done since my last post, mainly for my own benefit, but can't imagine any of the rest of you wanting to read through that much, haha! If anyone does, brilliant, but I certainly don't expect it.
 
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Group lesson Friday 29th August 2025:

I had Kris. I really struggled to keep him going! I love him and his personality quirks so much, but find I never quite know what I'm going to get with him from one minute to the next! We did a small course of jumps (I think there were 4). He went over all the jumps okay, but I struggled to keep him in a canter - and he even walked over one of them at one point, as if to say they were far too small for him!


Hack Friday 29th August 2025:
I had Mickey. As always, I really enjoyed riding him - he's good fun, but I always need to be careful around the other horses and ponies with him because he's not much of a fan and can and will kick if they get too close!


Spectating at first ever Scone Palace International Horse Trials (for us, Friday 22nd - Sunday 24th):
There were rather a lot of teething problems this first year, I feel. As a pedestrian, I was less than impressed that I was expected to walk quite so far to get to the entrance (they had closed the normal public entrance and made me walk an extra mile to the next one, but without even indicating that that one was there/how far away it was!) I was then expected to walk right through the woods, up a small hill and right along the border of the large field-sized car park. I mentioned this to the staff and they could not have cared less - a less than impressive "Welcome to our first horse trials!" in that respect.

Location-wise, I preferred Blair Atholl in a lot of ways, but Scone, despite the confusing pedestrian access, was still easier to get to and was not quite as spread out once I was in. Oh, and they released all the cars down the small "pedestrian" road after the trails on the last day! Great idea, not! My friend who drives was confused because it was a totally new exit for her, and she isn't familiar with the place or Scone. I was just trying not to get run over, myself, although at least I knew where I was going!

Almost all the photos show the palace, for the aesthetics, but you only see the palace at certain cross country jumps, really, as the horse trials took place right at the back of the palace, nearer Perth Racecourse. The stalls were the same ones as always. I particularly enjoyed looking around the arts and crafts marquee - so many talented people, and now I really want to try felting! I've also found a new favourite pizza place! In general, though, I took my own lunches and snacks to save money, as everything is always so hideously expensive at these things.

I watched a lot of dressage and show jumping. I also watched a bit of the arena eventing and the Pony Club Games, which are always a highlight for me - I love how game both the ponies and their young riders are, and wish I could just vault on the way they do! I doubt I would've been as fearless as them even when I was younger, though, as I never seemed to have lived the "I am young, therefore invincible and can do anything!" stage of life. I've always been rather cautious. The games always look so fun! The commentary is an absolute hoot - the man really needs to do stand-up or something, the way he casually comments on the young riders falling off, ponies getting loose and then generally just putting their heads down straight away to graze so their riders can catch and get on them again. I by far prefer watching them - they just seem to bounce back from everything and, while being around horses and riding is, of course, inherently risky, and their games are delightfully wild and chaotic, it still seems a lot less scary and dangerous than the cross country!

Apologies to all of those who love cross country. I know they're making the jumps safer, but to me, it isn't worth risking a horse and rider's life for, and the risk seems so much bigger with that discipline. One day, I started off over by the cross country - a big solid log jump down a hill into water. Classic cross country, as far as I've seen. I stayed there for all of 10 seconds. The very first horse I saw attempt it initially got its front legs caught on the log, the rider swore and it was absolutely gut-wrenching and horrible to watch. I thought I could be about to see one or both of them get seriously injured or even die. While I think it's great that the jumps seem a lot safer on the whole - maybe not thrilling enough for some riders at that level who are into that sort of thing? - some of them are clearly extremely dangerous. I just don't think it's worth risking horses' and riders' lives for jumps like the one I was watching the day the horse got stuck, basically. Nope. I really hope the horse wasn't injured. It did manage to get its legs unstuck and the rider took it round again. The second time, they cleared it.

To anyone who knows more about cross country, if you are reading this...do you think it was right that they just continued after that, without the horse's legs being checked first? I don't, really. Also, why the need for such massive thrills? I know everyone's different, but...why would you put such a wonderful creature and friend AND yourself at risk like that?

It had rained a bit another morning and I saw at least 2 riders retire from show jumping events because their horses were slipping on the grass and they didn't want to take the risk. I admire that. I know it's extremely expensive to enter shows and qualify for them. It must take an incredible amount of work, too. At the end of the day, though, if you know something's wrong and you could end up permanently injuring or losing what should be your best friend and trusted companion, it really isn't worth the risk in the long run. Not at all, in my opinion. I have so much admiration for the riders who realised that and retired gracefully for their horses' sake, putting their own ambitions and egos aside. Good for them! Good horsepeople, really putting their horses' welfare first.

Tragically, there were 2 horses that had to be put down in this inaugural year of having the horse trials at Scone. To me, while I don't know all the details, it seems like both cases could have been avoided if the horses' welfare had really been put first. Freak accidents happen, but WERE THEY? Were signs missed? I suppose we'll never know. It just seems so unnecessary. Such a horrible waste. RIP, Jump Start II and Storm Clara. :(

From Scone Palace's website:

"It is with great sadness that we announce that Jump Start II, owned and ridden by Susan Young (GBR), was humanely euthanised as a result of an accident while competing in the CCI2*-L class at Scone Palace International Horse Trials, Perth, UK, this morning, 23 August.

Jump Start II, a 16-year-old gelding slipped and fell between fences 20a and 20b. He was immediately attended to and treated by two veterinarians on course. He was transported off-course by equine ambulance to the on-site veterinary treatment unit. Regrettably, after being X-rayed, he was found to have sustained an inoperable fracture to his shoulder.

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Very sadly, a horse due to compete in a 90cm showjumping class also suffered a fatal injury in an isolated incident while waiting to jump. Storm Clara was being held by a connection of the competitor, was startled and got loose. The horse was treated by the veterinary team, was discovered to have sustained a catastrophic fracture, and had to be euthanised on humane grounds.

We extend our deepest sympathies to the connections of both horses."

While finding that quote for you, I also stumbled upon the death of a teenage girl who was eventing near Scone, Australia. Their statement of regret seems far more genuine than the Scone Palace one about the horses, to me. Was that just because a human was involved, not "just horses"? Again, I suppose I'll never know. Apparently, they arranged counselling for attendees who attended afterwards (many probably teens themselves).
 
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I’ve always envied people who can vault on, I’ve never been able to. I used to do some demo trick riding in my late teens/20’s but even then I couldn’t do it, I just didn’t have the spring in my legs required!
 
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Group lesson Friday 5th September 2025:

My first time on Magic! She was such a good girl, very responsive and so smooth. I don't think I'd be ready for her on a hack yet - one of the leaders had a very unfortunate fall recently when she spooked, and she is still rather spooky out - but she was an absolute dream in the arena. A lovely pony! I always find it so exciting when I get to ride a horse/pony for the first time there, because it shows me that my instructor thinks I'm progressing and ready for them. She is excellent at her job and really knows both her horses/ponies and her humans. I know if she gives me a new challenge, it's because she knows I'm ready for it.

We worked on extending and collecting the walk and trot and some shoulder-in.


Hack Friday 5th September 2025:

I had Angus. I sometimes struggle to get him to stay in canter, but, while he did end the canters a little early, I didn't have to push much to keep him going after just a few strides, like I often do!


Visiting friends during my Spanish city's annual fair (I was there from the 6th-14th of September):

Frustratingly, they have moved the day of the annual horse parade! It used to always be the 10th and I really loved it. However, you can still see a few of the absolutely gorgeous equines just by walking around the fair area, and I did, luckily! I'll try to post some photos if I can work out how to!


Group lesson Tuesday 16th September 2025:

I had wee Herbie, the other cheeky Connemara. I don't enjoy him much for long hacks, as I don't have the strength to keep him going and not get frustrated about everyone else being on horses and leaving us behind! That day didn't start well either, as he is an impatient imp and pretty much incapable of waiting, it sometimes feels! I ended up getting walloped on the nose as he was constantly moving as I tried to get his headcollar off and bridle on - he'd whacked his own nose on a stall door and then whipped around and hit me as well! I was fine, but it really hurt for a while. He then refused to stand still at the mounting block for my instructor either. She must have tried about 4 times before she just asked me to get on from the ground. Getting on from the ground was unproblematic and quick.

He was then as good as gold for our lesson! We worked mainly on transitions and circles in walk and trot.

After the lesson, though, he didn't want to have to wait again, so did a Houdini and untied his own rope. So much personality packed into one 13hhish pony, my God!


Hack Tuesday 16th September 2025:

I had one of my absolute favourites, Harvey, the sweetest piebald cob you could imagine. I was the only one cantering, so he was a bit reluctant to leave the herd and go a different way for a bit, but he did it. He's not the fastest, but I've never really felt a need for speed - he tries his heart out and is just a lovely, cute, fluffy soul, especially when the weather gets colder and he becomes a total teddy bear with the most impressive moustache I've ever seen! I just want to stand and hug him forever and kiss his soft nose...!


Group lesson Friday 26th September 2025:

I had Herbie again. He wasn't quite as horribly impatient as last time pre-lesson and was, once again, a total star in the arena. We did some TREC activities for the first time. One of my favourite lessons ever, I think - I hope we can do more of that at some point! Endurance is one of the disciplines which most interests me in horse riding. It's much more natural than the others, or it feels that way to me, at least. We started just by riding through trotting poles to practise straightness, then moved on to trotting poles set out in a kind of maze (Herbie's size was a definite advantage here, haha - made it easier than it was for my friends on 15-16hh horses!), winding through cones at walk and trot, riding ducked down as if there were a tree over the side of our mounts' necks and stopping in the middle of a circle for a minute with out hands on our head. Herbie was perfect until the standing still part, of course. He was still very good, though, especially for him! He only tried to step out once or twice. We'll call it a win!

Do any of you do TREC or endurance riding? I'd love to know more about them!


Hack Tuesday 16th September 2025:

Totally Connemara day! I had Kris, the other Connemara. It was only one other girl and myself cantering, so I was actually leading someone else in canters, which I'd never done before. It went well, though!
 
I’ve always envied people who can vault on, I’ve never been able to. I used to do some demo trick riding in my late teens/20’s but even then I couldn’t do it, I just didn’t have the spring in my legs required!
I probably would have had the spring, but not the guts, lol! I'm still quite springy now, and I'll be 38 at the end of February. I mounted a 16hh horse from the ground just a few years ago. I just stuck my toe in and was right up there. No bouncing or anything. Haven't needed to since mount a horse that large from the ground since, but probably still could. I think my dancing helps there! I'm not flexible for a dancer, but I'm reasonably flexible compared to your average person. Likewise, my stamina is nothing like a professional ballet dancer's, but it's way better than average - even my friends in my dance classes always comment on it. We all have strengths and...things that'll probably never happen, like me vaulting, for other reasons, haha!
 
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Group lesson Friday 3rd October 2025:

I had Kris. I thought our warm up went quite well, but I lost him somewhere and he was behind the leg and sluggish for the rest of the lesson. He slipped back into trot (and even walk!) when we were meant to have been cantering, including over one of the crossrails. We ended up doing all our circles in trot and also just going over most of the jumps in trot too.

If anyone reads this, do you have any tips for cantering circles? They still scare me, as I've barely cantered any circles. Trotted plenty, but I'm not used to cantering them. I end up losing the circle because I'm worrying about how fast we're gobbling up ground, which then means the horse or pony I'm riding loses balance and rhythm and I set them up wrong for any jumps I'm meant to be jumping afterwards. It's probably all in my head, but I need to get over that before I can truly work on it, probably!


Group lesson Friday 11th October 2025:

I had Fern. The lesson was on circles/bending and pole work at walk and trot (not in straight lines, but curved ones). Fern was generally wonderfully forward and responsive, as usual, and I'd forgotten just how beautifully floaty her trot was! It was a very different experience from Kris the previous day, even though he is generally very smooth too.

I did well at aiming for the centre of poles and lengthening/shortening her strides as necessary. I definitely still need to work on corners - she just gets so excited when there are jumps or even just poles! I haven't jumped her yet and don't feel I'm ready to - sticking to poles on here for now! I also need to improve my ability to achieve good bend on circles and do a better job of making sure her head doesn't get too low/she doesn't get behind the leg. Happy mediums!


Hack Friday 11th October 2025:

I had Kris. It was just the leader and I on the hack, which I always quite enjoy, as I know them quite well by now and it always feels very relaxed and just like a ride with a friend, with lots of chatting and catching up, as well as just enjoying the countryside and the horses/ponies. If I ever got my own horse/pony or one on loan, I think it's that sort of thing I'd enjoy most, besides just spending time with them, grooming them and giving them plenty of scritchies!
 
I didn't get to ride as much between the end of October and the end of December because I was doing supply work in a school and we had a few household disasters, like the pipe under the sink developing a hole and starting to flood the bathroom one day just as I had been about to finish up in there to go for my lesson! Doh! Life happens, I suppose - but it shouldn't get in the way of HORSES! 😄 Most inconsiderate of it!
 
Group lesson and hack Friday 14th November 2025:

I was usually working on Fridays at this point, but didn't have to attend the inservice day at the school, so took the opportunity to rejoin my horsey friends and ride, of course! I had Kris for both the lesson and the hack, but weirdly haven't made any notes on what I actually did with him. Oops! Can't have been too huge a disaster then, right, maybe?!


Private lesson Wednesday 26th November 2025:

I had Duke. He's about 16hh and the biggest at the farm, so a bit of a change when I've only been riding the ponies again for ages!

The focus was on me as the rider and how my position and movement affect the horse. We did a mixture of stirrup and non-stirrup work. The weather was gorgeous - just ideal! I love my group lessons, but it's really nice to have a private lesson every so often still too. Our "group" lessons never have more than 4 people in them, though, usually just 3 and sometimes even 2. We get plenty of attention and tips, which is brilliant! I know some places stuff a lot more people in lessons. It means that it's very hard to get a lesson at all sometimes, but when you do, it's always quality!

I need to keep working on keeping my elbows bent, my shoulders fully down (they don't go up to my ears or anything - I'm a dancer too, after all, and "shoulders down" is one thing both dancing and riding have in common! - but sometimes they're not fully down), tilting my pelvis up slightly, keeping my legs long and slightly further back and not gripping when I get tense. In rising trot, I need to work on letting the horse/pony do some of the work for me and push me up rather than pushing too much with my legs. I also still haven't mastered the art of feeling the correct diagonal, except for when I'm transitioning down from canter, when I check and am on the right diagonal 9/10. I've heard you can count and start on an odd number or something like that, but I haven't to make it work for me thus far - I still have to check the outside shoulder.

Any tips from anyone who might read this would be much appreciated!


Hack Wednesday 26th November 2025:

I had Kris again. At first, he was lazy and behind the leg, but then he woke up a bit and was great! Once again, it was just the leader and myself, which was lovely. Private hack and private lesson (no difference in price there when nobody else has booked or turns up!)
 
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