Hi all,
So some of you may have seen that I was involved in quite a nasty accident last week with my friends horse.
Everything was fine, and I managed to get on my horse and just walk around the ménage.
I have recently found out that some people, who didn't even see what happened, have been quite nasty about it, blaming me, saying I basically all events which happened previously led up to the disaster and I caused it. Also, I over reacted and am 'milking' it. Bearing in mind I escaped with mainly bruises, and my left knee is still painful.
I have tried to move on and ignore it, but most people saying these things are too scared to even hack out on their own horses!
The next thing, I went to tell the owner what happened, and several people got in there first and told their version. The person who was with me put her straight.
I asked one of the this morning if they told her and basically said yes, it wasn't the horses fault, I caused it, oh and that I think I know it all and need to be more humble!!
Now, I don't think I know it all, nobody knows it all, I know my horse and do why I feel is best for her. Sometimes people ask my opinion, but I don't interfere, like some people do. I ask other experienced people for their opinions, and take them on board.
I just don't get some people! Why do people have to be so nasty!!!
So some of you may have seen that I was involved in quite a nasty accident last week with my friends horse.
Everything was fine, and I managed to get on my horse and just walk around the ménage.
I have recently found out that some people, who didn't even see what happened, have been quite nasty about it, blaming me, saying I basically all events which happened previously led up to the disaster and I caused it. Also, I over reacted and am 'milking' it. Bearing in mind I escaped with mainly bruises, and my left knee is still painful.
I have tried to move on and ignore it, but most people saying these things are too scared to even hack out on their own horses!
The next thing, I went to tell the owner what happened, and several people got in there first and told their version. The person who was with me put her straight.
I asked one of the this morning if they told her and basically said yes, it wasn't the horses fault, I caused it, oh and that I think I know it all and need to be more humble!!
Now, I don't think I know it all, nobody knows it all, I know my horse and do why I feel is best for her. Sometimes people ask my opinion, but I don't interfere, like some people do. I ask other experienced people for their opinions, and take them on board.
I just don't get some people! Why do people have to be so nasty!!!