FIRST of all - thank you to EVERYONE for continuing to make this an intellectual polite conversation about this rather then a mud slinging contest for the close minded.. A good debate is a healthy thing and getting to work this morning and not seeing this thread locked was a nice thing
Now on with my long winded reply
Now hang on a sec.
Some unfair statements here have been made here.
First of all I never once said that I don't do them because of Semantics (although I have heard that) or that they don't work - in fact I gave reasons why they DO work. I also never said I don't research it , read what differnt people have to say attend clinics etc. I am not taking a blind stance here against it. and I am all for HORSEMANSHIP period.
I Don't like some of the aproaches (I don't like some classical aproaches either!) - I don't like this magical cult like entitiy that is being formed - I don't like this.. you have an issue? doing XYZ with Product A will fix it. (that just isn't any differnt then so much of what is in the tack stores anyway!) And I don't like this be all and end all of horsemanship that several people seem to think it is.
Flip side.. I CHEERED when he (Parelli) said stop lunging your horse in circles until thier brains turn to mush - the idea of "playing" with your horse - the idea of bothering to FORM a relationship - the idea of socializing a horse to experiences to help in day to day life - the idea that ground manners MATTER - the idea that a horse is an intellegent living breathing animal who can LEARN behaviours rather then just being forced into them.
But none of this was NEWS to me, there were no new concepts there - but if other people were seeing them as new concepts - Heck the more power to it!
and I am certain many of you have seen horses who have done "lateral lunging" (or as I like to call it.. Ground work) till thier brains turn to mush.. or done round pen work until they went loopy. Or people who in an effort to "form the unbreakable bond" force themselves on thier horses so much that the horse get irritated and buggers off!
I do see that I spent a good deal of time on the semantics - but feel that it IS important in this case as it gives a false sense of what is going on here and makes people feel that what they are doing is good and natural etc. What worries me is that it is often making the more traditional training sound like garbage and crulty to animals. when the TRUTH is that Traditional horsemanship and "Natural" horsemanship have a WHOLE lot in common - it's just been rebranded and repackaged and some "mystique" has been add for the masses.
What is ACTUALLY happening is a horse is being TRAINED - Horsemanship is being applied. Call it what you will Natural, Classical, traditional - a horse is being asked to perform set tasks and time is being taken to TEACH them to him in what we hope is a fair and compasionate manner.
If ANY of you ever get the chance to see Cavalia (a Cirque de Soliel show) take it. this is "Traditional" horsemanship at its FINEST The beuty of the horse/man bond is incredible you can FEEL it when you are there.
http://www.cavalia.net/ the website saddly doesn't do it justice.
The thing that makes me the MADEST is it seems to me that it's leading to a lot of stupidity as many people have said. A false sense of "Knowledge" gleened from money spent on this that and the other. Causing people to approach tasks far above thier level of skill. How many of us have read posts on here.. I bought such and such as a first horse he is out of control - I try doing what (insert name of natural horseman here) said to do in his book.. but it doesn' t seem to be working.. Why?? no background, no help no one to guide you and help you see past this cookie cutter idea - no "box of tricks" as I like to call it to pull from. If it didn't work.. I am stuck.. I must be doing something wrong.. because the book/video said... no one to take thier hand and say OK he doesn't seem to respond to that lets try THIS.
Now when I was learning - back when moon boots were in and I wore florescent pink and acid wash pretty much everyday. There were good horse people.. and not so good horse people.. those with intuition and those without. But more of those people where under the care of someone. be it instructor, knowledgeable aunt, maybe a neighbour. I just find more people are trying to go it alone because they have heard of this guy who waves his wand and POOF your horse is perfect. They have spent the money.. and the money.. and well more money to get the books, the videos, the gear, join the club, go to the clinics, the seminars and the demo's and can't understand why they are no further ahead and in some cases are further behind. That money would have been better spent on classes, a trainer maybe 4h or pony club. Sure they arn't perfect and I am sure I wouldn't agree with a lot of what THEY had to say either (such is the way of things

doubt me? read my signature.. but I always go my own way.. wanna come along it's always an interesting trip..) But at least the time would be spent with guidance, understanding and most importantly TIME in the saddle - out of the saddle and in general working with/caring for horses. Truly horses are amazing teachers of all things horse.
Horsemanship isn't about flash and bling.. and I am sorry it can't be learned in books and videos. It is as much about feel and balance not to mention empathy. It comes from the heart, a few good instructors at millage. There is no quick fix, no majic cure. I don't care what level you are at or who you have read or seen.
The truly simple truth is - that if you spend your time wisely with your horse, treat them with understanding you will end up with the horse you want most of the time (I say most because sometimes it in general, just doesn't WORK for whatever reason)
Long enough? Come on it's me.. you expected a long one..
Stille - Grab some books - get them from the library. you may be able to pull some interesting thoughts idea's or concepts from them. A little trick here that may come in handy later - a thought or concept you hadn't considered. It won't cost you anything to put a little time in rather then dumping it out of hand (although the fact that you asked says you have some interest in what's going on) Will it shatter your world and change your outlook on horses forever? not likely! But if one little thought that you pick up helps a horse down the road it will have been well worth it
