Not doing well today, been very sick. Just had a CT scan to check they haven't missed anything, bit concerned
Glad everything looks ok, hope he feels better soon xCT scan showed the op site good, joins holding fine, nothing wrong there, he is somewhat bunged up so is now having the full colic experience at both ends.....I left at that point
Love this update, how exciting for you to be progressing to the backing part.View attachment 121894
Actually got something to report today - a different view. Joe was leading, I was sat on top with strict instructions not to do anything other than pat AJ and let him know I was there. Apparently it's really worrying when you go quiet first time up and AJ is a worrier at the best of times.
He feels very similar to Raf in terms of size and shape so at least I don't have to get used to something different in that respect!
Thanks, I love it too - so practical. You only know how dirty he is when you pat him and get enveloped in a cloud of choking dust. I hope I've got a few years before I have to start scrubbing to get rid of the stainsLove this update, how exciting for you to be progressing to the backing part.
I still love his colour.
Mine rolled and shook and I was down wind. Made me cough.Thanks, I love it too - so practical. You only know how dirty he is when you pat him and get enveloped in a cloud of choking dust. I hope I've got a few years before I have to start scrubbing to get rid of the stains
Awful for him - as you say, brilliant with the surgery, then all undone with the aftercare - not what either of you need.He has a nasal/gastric tube in which isn't very nice and he spent most of the night on the loo on Wednesday night. Yesterday hey then shipped him out of ICU to a ward where he is in 4 bed room with loo across the ward and he has had two enemas today plus major manual intervention by the surgeon and you can guess the rest. When I went to see him he actually rang ICU to say that he really wasn't coping well and was distressed. So got a supercilious junior doctor with the empathy of a gnat give us a lecture - wish she was on strike as she couldn't even turn off the machine which had been bleeping for an hour every 20 seconds as the drip wasn't attached as he had to keep getting up to drag himself to the loo. The noise wasdriving everyone nuts. He had asked for a commode but none arrived, terrified he will fall and have a fracture as he is 79 and a bit unsteady and there is very limited space around the best. He is used to using a stick not a zimemer. What with having a tube down his nose, very upset gut and the runs, he is feeling utterly and the ward is noisy so no chance of sleeping.So welcome to the dark side of the NHS. I am utterly disgusted, he was talking to her logically saying that he felt he had come out of ICU too soon and needed another day to get a little better, and I completely agree as he will get no bloody sleep there and if he has to soil himself again waiting for the toilet to be free it is pretty bad care. And if he has to spend hours in there where are the other folks meant to go. Total bloody madhouse. Surgeon did a very good job, after care total crap
It would appear that our call to Intensive Care requesting he go back there has rattled some cages. The McMillan nurse was there today and was much more practical and annoyed that he had been so distressed. He now has a commode, had a couple of accidents during the night....seen about 7 folks today so his care has been upped. still on water only and waiting for his gut to wake up and stop sulking.Awful for him - as you say, brilliant with the surgery, then all undone with the aftercare - not what either of you need.
he has now had 3 and a physical intervention from the surgeon. Essentially gut shut down gone to sleep and can take days for it to start up again. Not sure why they didn't give the meds they do before a colonoscopy where you have to take 2 kinds of drinks which taste yuck and then spend 24 hours on the looThinking of you both. It is very stressful all round.
At least they gave him an enema. They never did with my mum despite her telling them she hadn't been for a week and was in discomfort. They just discharged her from hospital and left me to deal with it. In the end the district nurse they sent to change her leg dressing had to step in and i had to pick up the peices after that. It was so unfair on the district nurse and myself and should have been dealt with before ever being discharged.